Balancing friends and girlfriend?

i've found myself struggling to make both ends happy. my friends give me a hard time coz i'm always with my g/f. my g/f does the same coz she feels i hang out with my friends too much. in short, if i were to split up days of the week between the two, my g/f gets 4 and my friends get 3 on average i would say. i think that's fair. i also think having a good balance of time between friends and g/f is healthy. i can't satisfy both. i like having both but i feel like i'm alienating soem of my friends and not paying enough attention to my g/f. help!

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Determine what's more important to you, your friends or your girlfriend. If you're a teenager, you're too young to have a serious relationship for the reason that you feel you can't be with your friends. If you can't hang out together, then you'll have to chose.

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make it clear to both your girlfriend and your friends that you are A) only one person, and B) doing your very best not to leave anyone in a lurch. explain to your girlfriend that it is important that you both remain individuals, and that it's important to spend time with your friends. you want her to hang with her girls, and you want to hang with your guys--guilt free. explain to your buddies that you need to have time with your girlfriend, but will make sure to continue to spend time with them. your "time split" is great--but where is the time for just YOU?

this is something you have to deal with as you get older, and it will certainly be an eye-opener, and show you who your true friends are--the ones who accept that you have to share your time with someone else vs. the ones who constantly give you crap about it. those are generally the people who are relationship-less, and don't get it. they're not worth your time if they can't be happy for you, and accept that they have to share.

people grow up, they get relationships, and pair off, and have to adjust their time accordingly. keep doing what you're doing, and let the rest fall into place. the good friends will stick around, and be happy to see you whenever they get the chance. the rest will fall away, and there's nothing you can do about it, sadly.

good luck!

Male friends?

How do i make more male friends? i come off somewhat serious around guys. More like intimidating. I would like guys as friends but they attract to me in a more than friends way. I'm not a flirt so it ends up as neither a relationship nor a friendship. And sometimes i just want to chill and relax with them not date them. How do i make more male friends and how do i come off as a friend to guys?

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I had just the opposite problem when in High School. The only girls I knew were my friends! (I used to joke that I couldn't buy a date!)

I would say, just be yourself. Talk to guys just like you talk to your other friends. Some of them will want to be friends, some will want more, some may want less. Your best relationships will always be your friends.

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like if da guys r pl,aying sports or video games and all tat boy stuff they do try 2 play wit them boys like girls who play like football, basketball, and actually act like a boy in the games like sliding, tackling, and evrythn then u can becum there friends they like girls who get down in the dirt wit them

Help with friends!!?

I have lots of friends. But not as many as my popular friends have. But heres the bad part, i have kinda 2 groups of friends. 1. kinda popular, nice (to me), caring, and have alot in common with me.

2. normal, casual, friends. they dont have alot in common with me, but we are really great friends.

my question is, its hard being in 2 groups of friends. you know? like, "oh sit with me at lunch!!'' "oh i cant". so how do i handle this?! i really dont want to choose one group!

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Okay the way I see it you should merge these two groups together to form your own gand of super class friends!

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Then don't choose. You can still be friends with both. Maybe alternate who you sit with each day, or spend lunch with one group but recess with the other or some other simmilar arrangement.
some days sit with group 1 and then the other days sit with group 2... or try to get all of you to sit together.... or you should be close to the popular ones since you have more in common with them then the normal casual friends...but i would just try to get everyone to sit together and meet each other so you wouldn't have to go through all of this....
well you said you don't want to choose one group but in the end you'll have to if your worried about those types of questions thrown at you. you need to decide who you want to be with or else you have to somehow help GROUP 1 become friends with GROUP 2. and if you're still not sure what you want to do then weigh your options of which friends are better to you and also make a list of what you want in a friend. compare the two and if one sticks out above the other then you'll know your answer.

BEST OF LUCK!

My friends piss me off! help?

Well at my school I hang with about seven different chicks and like 2 guys but a few have been getting under my skin lately!

One of my friends thinks she perfect and belives every boy in the world loves her!

And 5 out of the 7 of my friends likes the same guy (who is also our friend) they are all fighting over him and it's pulling us all apart!

it's getting violent and bitchy,my friends are all hating each other fighting,crying making up rumors about each other!

he only likes 1 of the girls but the other 4 girls can't get over it!and the fighting begins again!

how can I get all of friends to stop prentending that they are perfect and to get them to stop fighting over HIM?

any advice?

PLEASE!

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real freinds don't fight over a guy. Cut them loose and keep it moving.

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It sounds like your friends have a healthy level of self esteem. There are so many people at the moment who don't like themselves. My advice is readjust your focus. Appreciate the little things about your friends. Remind yourself that this guy is only a passing phase, there will be other guys, similar things will happen. Its not about what they are doing, its about how you react to it.

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hello, lets call my 2 friends friend 1 %26amp; friend 2.

friend 1 and 2 had a fight the other day and they apologized so now they're CLOSE to each other. friend 1 would always say stuff to me until friend 2 apologized.. she would talk about music, her life, and other random stuff.

now that they've gone closer, friend 1 always talks to friend 2 about music, her life, and other random stuff. all she ever say to me was "hi, how are you. i love you" i know she said she loves me but "actions speak louder then words". is it just me or her?

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You smell, take a shower.

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It's your friend. She must have really missed friend 2. Don't worry it will blow over and then you'll all be talking together about music, life, and other random stuff. If it doesn't blow over it's her fault for losing a great friend(not yours!).Look into to finding another friend you can talk to about music, life, and other random things. Good Luck [with your friends]!!!!!!
ok hunny. first of all dont let this get to you. If they are real friends then it will pass by. I'm not sure how old u are and if your young then am not trying to partonise you, but its apart of friendship and growing up. U will find as u get older and meet new friends, you will learn to understand that you can happily have a circle of friends without any bother at all. Even in adult life, you can have the same experiences. Dont worry about it and just take it as it comes. If they are slagging u off then they are not true friends. hope this helps in some way x
Mabe your friends are still repairing the friendship.Friend 1 knows you are a friend and you two didn't have a fight.Give them some time and don't let yourself be left out of the fun talk,join in with them and all 3 of you will have fun just like friends should..

My friend has a crush on me but i just wanna b friends?

my friend has a crush on me but i just wanna be friends infact i have a huge crush on his other best friend i have 2 tell him sumtime soon that i like his friend but dont wanna brake his haert plzzzzz help

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Ooh thats tough. All you can do is be honest. Its better to break his heart earlier on than it is to wait a long time.

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some guys like it better when u r honest but some may want u 2 lie 2 them . srry thats all i can say p.s. i was reading this out of M mag
Date them both two is better then one if your dont like that idea then date the best friend and have a friend with benefiet
if you two are close friends, you should be able to talk it out.

he might be uncomfortable around you after that. and dating his best friend? well, don't tell him you like his best friend. don't date his friend for a long time after you reject your friend.
the only thing to do is tell him how you feel and that you are not trying to hurt him.
I don't see how that's going to work. If he has a crush on you then don't go hitting on his best friend. Just tell him that you want to be friends, I have a friend that makes friends with girls in a strange way, and all my other friends always think that he has a crush on any new girl that comes into the group. He asures me he doesn't and I believe him. Are you sure this fella's just not a really good friend?
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My old friends and I are falling apart?

I had a friend (let's call her Girl A) and there was another girl who I didn't know and she had a friend (let's call her Girl B). I met Girl B and we became friends. Then I introduced Girl A to Girl B. Girl B ditched her old friend and now we were all together. Now a year later it feels like they have completely changed. During the summer they were together but didn't invite me and now they don't even talk to me and ignore me and we don't even sit at lunch together. I feel like introducing them to one another has been the biggest mistake I've ever made! I have met new people this year but none of them really match my personality. I want to still be friends with Girl A but I doubt it will happen. Over the year they have gotten more popular than me. Do you think that affected our friendship? Are they embarrassed of me? How can we be friends again? I don't want to be alone this year and the next year. What happened? I don't feel comfortable talking to them about this. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?

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I feel ur pain.That same thing hapened to me.I had this friend and we were best friends for a year but then next year she started to change.She always got bored wen we talked and got an unusual habit of chaseing and following boys,wich i thought was ridiculous.Then she started hanging out with the popular kids a it seemed like she forgot about about me.At that time i thought that it was my fault she changed and i wished i could be friends with her agan but it didnt hapen.She didnt even invite me to her birthday!Now im glad im not her friend.I thouoght she was my friend,but she turned out too be a super SNOB!Now evryone in the whole school hates her exept for her mindless drone.

So heres my advice:

I your not friends with them anymore,its their loss.You cant expect to make friends with someone and be there friends for life.Heres the deal: People change.Friends change.I no u want her back the way she was before,but somtimes u just hafta deel with it.Ull make new friends.Trust me.I no i did!

Besides,mabye ur friend will turn into a super snob just like mine!LOL!

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If they just ditched you, they weren't your friend to begin with.

I keep telling my daughter to stay to herself. If she wants friends have one main one and the others as associates because too many friends is too many personalities. And things like what just happened to you will happen.

There are so many people in the world and in school. Just do what they are doing. Find a new friend, don't even worry about them because chances are if you trust their friendship agian they may do the same thing to you again.
keep trying, give them calls tell them you want to hang out and stuff.

Keep trying and if nothing changes after awhile give it up let go and move on ppl change and grow apart its apart of life.

"Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. What is meant to be will end good and what is not wont. Relationships are worth fighting for but sometimes you can鈥檛 be the only one fighting. At times people need to fight for you. If they don't you just gotta move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Hopefully people realize great things when they come around and don't lose something real. Always fight until you can't anymore and then be fought for."

-Erin Drury
I hate to say this but ppl osmetimes grow apart. keep trying to make new friends.
I know exactly how you feel. i have two best friends and i would call one of them and then i would suggest to call the other one on three way. then i would end up the quiet one and they seemed to talk the whole time to each other not me. is what i did was i invited both of them over one at a time . and they came and we had a great time. then they saw that i was still there friend. and now everything is fine. i hope i was some help to you. =)