Balancing friends and girlfriend?

i've found myself struggling to make both ends happy. my friends give me a hard time coz i'm always with my g/f. my g/f does the same coz she feels i hang out with my friends too much. in short, if i were to split up days of the week between the two, my g/f gets 4 and my friends get 3 on average i would say. i think that's fair. i also think having a good balance of time between friends and g/f is healthy. i can't satisfy both. i like having both but i feel like i'm alienating soem of my friends and not paying enough attention to my g/f. help!

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Determine what's more important to you, your friends or your girlfriend. If you're a teenager, you're too young to have a serious relationship for the reason that you feel you can't be with your friends. If you can't hang out together, then you'll have to chose.

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make it clear to both your girlfriend and your friends that you are A) only one person, and B) doing your very best not to leave anyone in a lurch. explain to your girlfriend that it is important that you both remain individuals, and that it's important to spend time with your friends. you want her to hang with her girls, and you want to hang with your guys--guilt free. explain to your buddies that you need to have time with your girlfriend, but will make sure to continue to spend time with them. your "time split" is great--but where is the time for just YOU?

this is something you have to deal with as you get older, and it will certainly be an eye-opener, and show you who your true friends are--the ones who accept that you have to share your time with someone else vs. the ones who constantly give you crap about it. those are generally the people who are relationship-less, and don't get it. they're not worth your time if they can't be happy for you, and accept that they have to share.

people grow up, they get relationships, and pair off, and have to adjust their time accordingly. keep doing what you're doing, and let the rest fall into place. the good friends will stick around, and be happy to see you whenever they get the chance. the rest will fall away, and there's nothing you can do about it, sadly.

good luck!

Male friends?

How do i make more male friends? i come off somewhat serious around guys. More like intimidating. I would like guys as friends but they attract to me in a more than friends way. I'm not a flirt so it ends up as neither a relationship nor a friendship. And sometimes i just want to chill and relax with them not date them. How do i make more male friends and how do i come off as a friend to guys?

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I had just the opposite problem when in High School. The only girls I knew were my friends! (I used to joke that I couldn't buy a date!)

I would say, just be yourself. Talk to guys just like you talk to your other friends. Some of them will want to be friends, some will want more, some may want less. Your best relationships will always be your friends.

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like if da guys r pl,aying sports or video games and all tat boy stuff they do try 2 play wit them boys like girls who play like football, basketball, and actually act like a boy in the games like sliding, tackling, and evrythn then u can becum there friends they like girls who get down in the dirt wit them

Help with friends!!?

I have lots of friends. But not as many as my popular friends have. But heres the bad part, i have kinda 2 groups of friends. 1. kinda popular, nice (to me), caring, and have alot in common with me.

2. normal, casual, friends. they dont have alot in common with me, but we are really great friends.

my question is, its hard being in 2 groups of friends. you know? like, "oh sit with me at lunch!!'' "oh i cant". so how do i handle this?! i really dont want to choose one group!

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Okay the way I see it you should merge these two groups together to form your own gand of super class friends!

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Then don't choose. You can still be friends with both. Maybe alternate who you sit with each day, or spend lunch with one group but recess with the other or some other simmilar arrangement.
some days sit with group 1 and then the other days sit with group 2... or try to get all of you to sit together.... or you should be close to the popular ones since you have more in common with them then the normal casual friends...but i would just try to get everyone to sit together and meet each other so you wouldn't have to go through all of this....
well you said you don't want to choose one group but in the end you'll have to if your worried about those types of questions thrown at you. you need to decide who you want to be with or else you have to somehow help GROUP 1 become friends with GROUP 2. and if you're still not sure what you want to do then weigh your options of which friends are better to you and also make a list of what you want in a friend. compare the two and if one sticks out above the other then you'll know your answer.

BEST OF LUCK!

My friends piss me off! help?

Well at my school I hang with about seven different chicks and like 2 guys but a few have been getting under my skin lately!

One of my friends thinks she perfect and belives every boy in the world loves her!

And 5 out of the 7 of my friends likes the same guy (who is also our friend) they are all fighting over him and it's pulling us all apart!

it's getting violent and bitchy,my friends are all hating each other fighting,crying making up rumors about each other!

he only likes 1 of the girls but the other 4 girls can't get over it!and the fighting begins again!

how can I get all of friends to stop prentending that they are perfect and to get them to stop fighting over HIM?

any advice?

PLEASE!

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real freinds don't fight over a guy. Cut them loose and keep it moving.

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It sounds like your friends have a healthy level of self esteem. There are so many people at the moment who don't like themselves. My advice is readjust your focus. Appreciate the little things about your friends. Remind yourself that this guy is only a passing phase, there will be other guys, similar things will happen. Its not about what they are doing, its about how you react to it.

I feel like my friends cant say anything to me and i feel replaced. 10 PTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

hello, lets call my 2 friends friend 1 %26amp; friend 2.

friend 1 and 2 had a fight the other day and they apologized so now they're CLOSE to each other. friend 1 would always say stuff to me until friend 2 apologized.. she would talk about music, her life, and other random stuff.

now that they've gone closer, friend 1 always talks to friend 2 about music, her life, and other random stuff. all she ever say to me was "hi, how are you. i love you" i know she said she loves me but "actions speak louder then words". is it just me or her?

I feel like my friends cant say anything to me and i feel replaced. 10 PTS FOR BEST ANSWER?love girls myspace

You smell, take a shower.

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It's your friend. She must have really missed friend 2. Don't worry it will blow over and then you'll all be talking together about music, life, and other random stuff. If it doesn't blow over it's her fault for losing a great friend(not yours!).Look into to finding another friend you can talk to about music, life, and other random things. Good Luck [with your friends]!!!!!!
ok hunny. first of all dont let this get to you. If they are real friends then it will pass by. I'm not sure how old u are and if your young then am not trying to partonise you, but its apart of friendship and growing up. U will find as u get older and meet new friends, you will learn to understand that you can happily have a circle of friends without any bother at all. Even in adult life, you can have the same experiences. Dont worry about it and just take it as it comes. If they are slagging u off then they are not true friends. hope this helps in some way x
Mabe your friends are still repairing the friendship.Friend 1 knows you are a friend and you two didn't have a fight.Give them some time and don't let yourself be left out of the fun talk,join in with them and all 3 of you will have fun just like friends should..

My friend has a crush on me but i just wanna b friends?

my friend has a crush on me but i just wanna be friends infact i have a huge crush on his other best friend i have 2 tell him sumtime soon that i like his friend but dont wanna brake his haert plzzzzz help

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Ooh thats tough. All you can do is be honest. Its better to break his heart earlier on than it is to wait a long time.

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some guys like it better when u r honest but some may want u 2 lie 2 them . srry thats all i can say p.s. i was reading this out of M mag
Date them both two is better then one if your dont like that idea then date the best friend and have a friend with benefiet
if you two are close friends, you should be able to talk it out.

he might be uncomfortable around you after that. and dating his best friend? well, don't tell him you like his best friend. don't date his friend for a long time after you reject your friend.
the only thing to do is tell him how you feel and that you are not trying to hurt him.
I don't see how that's going to work. If he has a crush on you then don't go hitting on his best friend. Just tell him that you want to be friends, I have a friend that makes friends with girls in a strange way, and all my other friends always think that he has a crush on any new girl that comes into the group. He asures me he doesn't and I believe him. Are you sure this fella's just not a really good friend?
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My old friends and I are falling apart?

I had a friend (let's call her Girl A) and there was another girl who I didn't know and she had a friend (let's call her Girl B). I met Girl B and we became friends. Then I introduced Girl A to Girl B. Girl B ditched her old friend and now we were all together. Now a year later it feels like they have completely changed. During the summer they were together but didn't invite me and now they don't even talk to me and ignore me and we don't even sit at lunch together. I feel like introducing them to one another has been the biggest mistake I've ever made! I have met new people this year but none of them really match my personality. I want to still be friends with Girl A but I doubt it will happen. Over the year they have gotten more popular than me. Do you think that affected our friendship? Are they embarrassed of me? How can we be friends again? I don't want to be alone this year and the next year. What happened? I don't feel comfortable talking to them about this. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?

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I feel ur pain.That same thing hapened to me.I had this friend and we were best friends for a year but then next year she started to change.She always got bored wen we talked and got an unusual habit of chaseing and following boys,wich i thought was ridiculous.Then she started hanging out with the popular kids a it seemed like she forgot about about me.At that time i thought that it was my fault she changed and i wished i could be friends with her agan but it didnt hapen.She didnt even invite me to her birthday!Now im glad im not her friend.I thouoght she was my friend,but she turned out too be a super SNOB!Now evryone in the whole school hates her exept for her mindless drone.

So heres my advice:

I your not friends with them anymore,its their loss.You cant expect to make friends with someone and be there friends for life.Heres the deal: People change.Friends change.I no u want her back the way she was before,but somtimes u just hafta deel with it.Ull make new friends.Trust me.I no i did!

Besides,mabye ur friend will turn into a super snob just like mine!LOL!

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If they just ditched you, they weren't your friend to begin with.

I keep telling my daughter to stay to herself. If she wants friends have one main one and the others as associates because too many friends is too many personalities. And things like what just happened to you will happen.

There are so many people in the world and in school. Just do what they are doing. Find a new friend, don't even worry about them because chances are if you trust their friendship agian they may do the same thing to you again.
keep trying, give them calls tell them you want to hang out and stuff.

Keep trying and if nothing changes after awhile give it up let go and move on ppl change and grow apart its apart of life.

"Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. What is meant to be will end good and what is not wont. Relationships are worth fighting for but sometimes you can鈥檛 be the only one fighting. At times people need to fight for you. If they don't you just gotta move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Hopefully people realize great things when they come around and don't lose something real. Always fight until you can't anymore and then be fought for."

-Erin Drury
I hate to say this but ppl osmetimes grow apart. keep trying to make new friends.
I know exactly how you feel. i have two best friends and i would call one of them and then i would suggest to call the other one on three way. then i would end up the quiet one and they seemed to talk the whole time to each other not me. is what i did was i invited both of them over one at a time . and they came and we had a great time. then they saw that i was still there friend. and now everything is fine. i hope i was some help to you. =)

To all my friends out there I want to wish a Happy Friendship Day.?

Can you share the messages you received with me on this day. Here are a few that I got from my friends.....

Aap ki duniya asma hai to sitare aap k dost honge. Un sitaro me humme na dhundhna kyon ki app ki tamanna puri karne wale tutate Tare hum honge.

My mom always told me that we could never measure our wealth by money but by our friends. She would surely be glad to meet you and know how rich I turned out to be!

I'm glad friendship doesn't come with price tags. For if it does, I'd never afford someone as great as you.

God in heaven, God above, please protect the friend I love. Sent with a smile, sealed with a kiss, I love my friend who's reading this.

The nicest place these days is right beside your friends. Usog konti, tabi ako!

You brighten my day, di ka naman araw. You light up my life, di ka naman ilaw. You make me smile, di ka naman bulalakaw. You warm my heart, di ka naman sabaw. Friend kita, yan malinaw!

A friend is sweet when it is new. And it is sweeter when it is true. But you know what? It is sweetest when it is you.

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"Who finds a faithful Friend finds a tresure"-Jewish saying

A Friend like u is a precious GEM.

Hard to find,

Difficult to part with

and treasured forever.

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!

To a friend who is always close to my heart.

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Friendship grows out of chance.........

Meeting a mere glance and then a smile.....

And touches the Heart in more way than one !

I'snt it great how we have grown....

From being perfect strangers...

to whom we are today !

Im so fortunate to have found a wonderful friend like u !

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY !!!

Have a nice day and enjoy with ur friends!

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thanks a lot
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HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY TO YOU.
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Wish you the same. Happy friendship day.
thnx and same to u
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Boyfriend and his friends?

I'm going to break up with my bf soon. We are just too different and I want someone new. he's not a "let's still be friends" kind of guy, so he's going to hate me for at least a little while. The prob. is that my bf's best friend is dating my best friend, and I would really like to stay friends with his best friend, but I won't be able to if my bf hates me. Also, I like a few of my bf's other friends but I don't think they would ever date me because they want to be loyal to their friend. What do I do?

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The decision to break up or not should be yours based on how you feel about your bf, not about how you feel about his best friend will treat you afterwards. I'm guessing that, sure, he'll be stand-offish with you for a bit, but will soon realize that if he's dating your best friend that you are part of the package. He may surprise you and be more mature that you're giving him credit for and be friends with you despite the relationship you had with his friend. Also, you bf's friends will not hold it against you....they probably wish you were theirs right now if it wasn't for him.

There's no sense in staying in the relationship if it isn't going anywhere, so break up and let the chips fall where they may!

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I think~ you should dump your boyfriend.

Then still hang out with his friends.

Don't get in a tangled up relationship with them and look for other boys. =]
Get a life and quit worrying about pointless stuff.
Make him break up wiht you, get moody.
find different people
dont go after his freinds.... he would gate u forever then... i mean think how you would feel is your ex bf started dating your good freind... you might think its not a big deal bt then there would be jealousy and ****.. you dont want that......but if u really want a guy holla at me...:P
have him break up with you . ?
thats such a freaky situation!!!

i think all you can do is end it :S what else? be a prisoner of his love? xD

end it :S
make him break up with u
you sound a bit like my ex gf...now of which i dont talk to, dont go for one of his mates, that would hurt him heaps
first off they sound like jerks if he still wont be friends with you. you should be friends with some one before you can date them. so inturn if u stop dating them then u should still be friends. if he likes u then he will understand. Unless u were just dating him because he was hot and a good kisser.
Break up with him if your not happy. It would have ended eventually. Stay close to your friend but you don't really need to be close to his other friends.

I wouldn't date any of his other friends....try dating outside the circle.
yea break up and move on. nothing is worse then people dating within a group to where everyone just dates each other at different times, theres other guys
Too bad for them. If your friendship with some people is contingent upon who you're dating, it doesn't make sense to consider them friends.

Additionally, what were you thinking, that you could date some of his friends once you end it with him? It's possible. You probably couldn't get away with it while you're still together, right? You'd be surprised at how willing some of his friends are to date you after you brake up with him. Believe me, they're not all going to be so loyal. Clearly you're not and neither are all of them.
The fact that you like his friends is just another reason to break up! Liking your BF's friends is messed up so it's probably good your breaking up with him if your feelings are drifting.
DONT DATE HIS FRIENDS JUST BREAK UP WITH HIM IF NOT HAPPY AND MAYBE STILL CAN BE FRIENDS WITH HIS FRIENDS END IT NICELY AS YOU CAN
The best breakups are very up front, honest and to the point. It will probably cause some friction with his friend and your friend but it won't last long - everyone will get over it.
Just tell him the truth. His friends would probably ask him before they decided to be ur bf.
um you could either break up with him and lose a bunch of friends. you could stay with him and just go with the relationship for a little longer and see what happens. or which would prolly work out the best, get him to break up with you, and then just be ok with it. he's gonna feel bad so he's not going to hate you, and then you can do w/e you want with his friends or w/e.
Break up with your b/f. Do it respectfully and be honest with him, and then don't worry about it. You'll still be friends with your friends, if they were really your friends. Just pretend like nothing has changed in your friendship. Be friends with his girlfriend, and be friendly to him. It's not a big deal, he'll still be friends with you. There's no reason for him to hate you just because you broke up with his best friend.
if there is nothing between you and your bf then there is not alot between you and his friends. and the best thing to do is find some new mates
Break up with him and deal with whatever comes....haha...what else would you do? Just don't go getting involved with a 'mutual friend'. That would be silly
Your weird why would u date him if you like his friend. $$$$$$$$$$$$ huh is it for the money tell me. Just kidding do what your heart tells you to do if you do that youll never go wrong. Also dont ask ppl about those things.
if i were u, i would talk to his best friend. tell him what u're going to do and that u still want to be friends with him no matter what happens. he would understand if he's mature enough. dating his other friends is not a good idea. u will just hurt urself and loose the chance of being friends with them.

well it's just my opinion. depends on u. good luck :) and happy new year!
I think that you should take his friends to the side and personally tell them that you appreciate their friendships and you don't want to lose them. Let them know that what goes on between you and your boyfriend is strictly just between you two and that you hope your future ex-boyfriend's opinion doesn't hurt their opinion of you as well. If you still want to be their friend, then that means that they are already your friends. They should understand. If they don't understand, then they weren't really worth the time and effort, as horrible as that may sound. I hope that helps!
i had the same problem a couple weeks ago i just asked a friend that he had and was my friend too and he said he wouldnt hate me but he also told his friend i planned on dumping him... but it didn't do all bad i mean ya he was mad but also he was pepaired... so it wasnt lie a shock... but ya... it wasn't my best plan but it worked... only thing is that my ex is begging me to get back with him....
if you want to break up with him then break up with him or try to work things out..but dont go out with your boyfriends friends cuz thts wrong he will def hate you but i doubt they will stop being your friend cuz you guys broke up. good luck
Don't try to make your boyfriend's friends choose between you and him. If they want to continue being friends with you let them make the effort. As far as dating your ex-boyfriend's friends...not a good idea. Your ex-boyfriends friends are going to have zero respect for you if you start going after them, so you won't want to date them anyway. Find some new people to hang out with and some new guys to be attracted to.
If you break up with him maturely, you wouldn't have to deal with all the childish attitude towards each other.

Just friends or more than friends? Not sure what is going on...?

Met a wonderful girl in Boston where I live, in the beginning we were just friends and didn't expect more, but as soon as we started seeing a lot of each other we quickly developed into lovers. We were both in another relationship at the time, and she broke up with her boyfriend (to my surprise),but I didn't leave my girlfriend for her and while I suspect that it broke her heart a little, she said it was for the best and we just reverted to being friends again. Now, a year later, and i've realized i still care a lot for her and am trying to work out if we still have a chance.She still sends strong signals, but when it comes up explicitly,laughs %26amp; says that she only sees me as a friend and couldn't imagine us having ever been a couple (this after she hounded me for weeks to break up with my gf %26amp; be with her).Is she just afraid of being rejected again or have i really killed this one?Do girls ever say they just want to be friends, for fear of losing control, when they really want more?

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She doesn't want to pressure you, as she enjoys your friendship and you have fun together, and she doesn't want to lose that. She might have resolved with herself that if it was meant to be than it was meant to be. If you are still with the GF then drop it but if you are single, start SLOW (don't bumrush anything) and take things from there.

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could be.....

i think she probably still likes you...
hmm...well, i think she still wants to be with you, but is afraid of rejection. i guess you can try talking to her about it, so that you guys can sort out your feelings and see if you want to start a relationship. but its true about what you said, some girls say they just want to be friends for the fear of losing control when they want more, ive done that too many times...its not very rewarding.
She loves you.If you have felings for her go and tell her.She is waiting.
If it came down to a choice between the old g/f or the new g/f, which would you choose? And could you HONESTLY STILL BE FRIENDS with the...err...loser?

To be honest, I can't go backwards from a serious relationship to just a "let's be friends" non-commital friendship" with a woman! Simply because I've been too emotionally close!

It's nice to want to "stay in touch" with a former lover or spouse, but realistically...how many of us DO?
it could be that you already hurt her and she is afraid of being hurt again.
I think she still likes you. But, she thinks you feel differently about her and don't want to be hurt again. Since she broke off with her b/f and you stayed with your old g/f. She probably feels that you don't care for her like she does you. Like it is sort of a one sided type thing. If you really want to know, maybe you should talk to her about the relationship both of you had before. Since she is trying to save her heart and won't admit that she wants a "lover" relationship with you. Maybe you could let her know how you really feel about her. It might open the door for her to be a little more honest with you about her feelings.

Friends not likeing friends; HELP?

ok well i have a really good friend [[ one of my bestfriend]] and she talks about all my other friends. and then all my other friends talk about her. and like i dont know what to do like when my bestfriend talks about everyone like i dont want to be rude. but then i also dont want to talk about them. and then same with my other friends that talk about my bestfriend. i mean what do i do.

and even if i agree with what that person is saying about the other person, i just keep my mouth shut and then they get kinda mad.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?.

thank you.

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Tell them that you aren't the best person to talk about these things. If you are friends with both of them, then they should respect your other friends. Be brave and tell them that you would greatly appreciate it if they didn't talk about your friend(s) like that without being too commanding. Tell them that they/she are/is your friend(s) too.

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well... i tink u should tell them that u really dont want 2 get invovled in the discusion(even though u wanna) tell them that u dont feel right talking bout ur other friend/friends...
ugh same thing with me. except i have like four different cliques that i hang out with and none of them like each other. just remind them that the other people are your friends and that they dont have to like them, just dont talk about them. do as much as you can to keep them away from each other too haha
I have the same problem with my friends. Its a very tricky situation, I understand.

I think you should try talking to your friends and best friend about how you feel about when they talk about others and that it kinda hurts. Explain to them.

Or just ignore it or change the subject. Thats what I do.

Hope it all works out!!!
I had a best friend who no one liked and all my other friends hated her too. I finally got sick of listening to them talking **** as it seems you have too and just told them to stop it.

tell your best friend that she is your best friend but they are your friends too so leave it alone or your going to have to stop talking to her and then tell the other friends the same thing.

Then you should let them know that thier being pretty damn selfish putting you in that sort of situation where you have to pick and choose. Let them know you don't ask them to hang out with her so stop making it hard on you to hang out with her

Also just to let you know your truely a great person becuz your not giving in to peer pressure. or hanging with only the kool kids.
yo is this about me????

becuase if it is naw girl.

becuase we both do our even ammount of talking shiz.

and even if i fotn agree i just let u let it out okae so if it is no.

lol no need to get krunk witcha girl.

but sersiouly is it about me omg ima scream cause i dont talk that much crap only about that one blonde chick ya know.

All my friends left me, who's mistake was it?

My very jealous closest friend distanced herself from me when she suspected I made friends with someone she hated. As a result, I'm here with no real close friends and one very popular new friend who never has time for anything.

Should I just walk away, wait for an apology or move on with my life and focus all this energy on my college courses? Or should I look for new, better friends?

If you've ever been betrayed by your friends..leave your story, I'd love some company.

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I have certainly been betrayed by several friends and when it happens it's really awful especially when it's happened more than once.

You seriously need to find some real friends as false friends are very emotionally draining.

I try not to live in the past so I will take the option of leaving some advice on what to do about it.

Know who your friends are. Don't tell random people your thoughts on someone else. It will result in disaster.

If someone wants something kept secret, keep it to yourself.

If you tell, not only will you ruin the trusting relationship you had with the person who told you, but you will probably end up getting mad at the person who you told.

Stick with your true friends until the end. They will be the only lifelines you have in some situations.

Avoid arguments. Arguing about something makes everything worse.

If an argument occurs, make sure both sides of the story are clear. You don't want people to go along with one story, correct?

Don't lie. Simple enough. Just don't.

Tips - Keep a positive attitude through everything, but not too positive so it looks like you don't care about the whole situation.

Talk to someone about it, whether it be a friend, counselor, whatever. Get it out, write it down. Don't cramp it all in your head!

If there is a person/friend that is creating drama and you don't like it, then let go of that person. You can't deal with your drama AND theirs!

Warnings - Don't lie. It will all come back to you.

Don't follow fake friends. They'll get you into more trouble.

Do not let any information go out to just anyone. Rumors will progress, and you will be in deep trouble.

Tips on making new friends -

Join a club or take up a hobby. If you have trouble fitting in, clubs and activities out of school will give your confidence a boost. Choose something you like and will enjoy, so if you like sports, join a sports club. If you're more dramatic, join a drama club or dance class. The possiblites are endless!

Try discussing things that interest you with other people. If someone is talking about that show you love or celebrity you admire, without interrupting the conversation, join in and casually say how you just love it too!

Don't change who you are. If there is a clique you want to be part of, don't change your style to fit in. Even if it takes time, I'm sure you'll find a friend or group of friend who like you just the way you are.

Smile! Smiling gives you a real look of confidence and makes you jump out as being happy and fun to be around. More people will like to hang out with you if you look fun.

Keep calm. Don't keep talking about yourself, and keep your words slow and simple. Don't startle people with a big vocabulary or over-excited voice.

Find friends that have the qualites you're looking for. If someone looks funny, don't be shy to talk to them! If you need a friend who is cool and unique, don't just try your school. It's a big world out there, so head out and look!

Penpals are fun and are great if you're too busy to bother with chatty friends. There are great penpal linking websites out there. or if you're not into computers, try asking your school if they could link up with another school and write to them!

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I think you should use that energy to study and you'll find new friends on the way. I recently started a new school and i feel lonely cause all my old friends don't keep in touch with me and I'm not sure why but like my dad told me.. You're always going to be alone o matter how many friends you have because they're just friends but you need to learn to be independent. I still get depressed sometimes about it too but it's just a face everybody goes through at least once in their life don't lose hope you'll make some new friends. And you don't need friends like her trust me. Good Luck
All she did is suspect and that doesnt give her a right to SUSPECT. If your friends left you they arent your friends. Forget about it and move on but for the girl who SUSPECTED I think u need to talk to her.
idk if this will help but

i would say move on and find new freinds cus she shouldnt of distenced herself from you bcus u made friends with someone els

i had freinds that just went away from me bcus i didnt talk to them enough so i had to get totally new freinds and now i only have like 2 freinds and 1 is going away from em agion so idk wht to do eather

gl with w/e u decide to do
same thing happened to me but a little different i became alot closer with an old friend and i tried to keep her she though i was talking about her with this friend but just a week b4 this her new friend turned the whole class aagainst my friend and they were against me also cus i was the only one with her and my old friend was the reason all this happened so it was just me and my best friend abby and the other 2 girls are talking about me sooo much i just ignore[ing] them like they are not worth my enegery and i couldnt care less about them while they are beyond obsessed with talking about me lmaooo its not even funny. with some people they dont even apoligize like in my case the other 2 ppl have this attitude like they are always right even if they are wrong they never apoligize or anythig ughhh i hate people like that =/

heres a good quote 4 what u are going through

" there comes a time in your life when you stop chaseing after people, its not called giving up, its realizing that you dont need certain people the bullsh**and drama they bring"

hope i helped

Where/how to make new friends?

I am a very outgoing person and in college and when I was a freshman I made a lot of friends since I lived close to a lot. However, I am an extreme perfectionist and have learned to be very critical of myself and can read people easily and see through their intentions (my dad made me this way unfortunately, long story). I seem to have a lot of friends, but no TRUE friends or ones I can tell anything to or "best friend" type. I don't know why. I think I am sort of a homebody and sometimes have social anxiety if I don't know anyone. I know it's easy to say well just go out there and make friends, but even if I go out and make friends it seems so many girls these days are shallow, fake, backstabbing, liars, etc etc etc. All the friends I made at college soon led to be one of those. Also, most people out there already have several best friends so I can't just enter into that and suddenly be their best friend...I don't know its just overwhelming I worry I will have no bridesmaids hah

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just go out and act out of your personality. if you are a homebody, go out and act like the person you were in college. you may not feel that way, but act like it, and pretty soon you will feel like it. don't worry, i'm sure you'll have lots of bridesmaids

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bestfriends do come at the right timeand at the right place.. You don't need to search or to find one..it will come to you..maybe not for now..but who knows..you don't know what might happen next..don't feel to bad about that..there's time for you to have the best and a fitted bestfriend for you..it will come soon..goodluck!!!
i really feel for you babes but i think you need to get out there more, you are obviously meeting the wrong type of people, as not everyonr is like that. There are plenty of nice people outthere you're just looking in the wrong places. I'm sure if you find something that you are into you willl meet people that are into the same kind of thing and you will have more in common with them.
I know how you fell I have a hard time too. I tend to make friends with guys better than girls and then girls can sometimes get on my nerves after a while. All I can say is that you will have to take a chance on some people and then you may have to try making friends with older people instead. They don't have to be wearing dentures or anything like that but a few years older than you. Maybe you need to hang around more mature people.

My friend is friends with a girl I like, how can I get her to talk to me?

I really like a girl that is friends with one of my friends. Sometimes we will look at each other and then one of us will turn away. She said "Whoa, did you see that shot" during gym class to her friends. I don't know what I should do since we are not friends but I can tell she doesn't dislike me.

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confidence man confidence your to busy dreaming make the move if you want to know her more dont rush be slow and she might give you the go slow and easy

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hey me again like that other dude said go up to her a lot of guys a my school arent shy they'll all go up to me nerds and hotties so just do it or else if you wait she'll think your not so aggersive which is bad because you want to be aggresive its hot and a girl and boy(man) lol

My friends friend is being bashed, what to do?

My friends friend is in an abusive relationship with a guy. I dont think it is my buisness to interfear in the matters of others. I mean I dont really know her that well, she comes round my friends a few times and stuff.

I come on here regually and answer questions and seem to have a decent success rate, perhaps I should talk to her about it?

PS: She thinks she is deserving of it because she annoys him? I personally think that is a load. I was told this by my friend in confidence so I am sure this is none of my buisness but it irritates me so

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Sorry to say theres not much u can do. Even if u interfere and say something she'll get mad cause her friends said something to you and the friend will be mad at you for sayin wat she told you not too. And you can talk till your blue in the face either way she'll be right back with him in the end

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you can't really help someone that doesn't want to be helped. Until she wakes up and realizes that she needs to leave him alone I dont think there's anything u can do.
Actually anytime you see some one being bashed in a abusive relationship it is your business to at least talk to them and tell them what you see going on. As far as it being her fault that is a load because if she did annoy him that much then he should just go on to some one that doesn't annoy him. There is no reason to abuse any one in any shape or form.

Your friend and her friend may get mad at you for "interfering" but sooner or later they will see that you did it in best interest for her.
Smack him around and let's see how he likes it. Anyways just be there for %26amp; show her that she's worth more than that. She will leave him soon!
I would ask how is doing.... small talk ... maybe she will tell you herself.. then you can tell her what she could do..

there are woman who feel this way becasue they don鈥瞭 know better or there child life they have seen nothing else.

Making close friends in high school? Please help?

Hey everybody. I am a freshman in high school. I came from a small middle school, where I had a ton of friends. All of my friends went to different high schools than I did.

This year I went into the school expecting it to be easy to make friends. I had my head up my ***, and I wasn't particuarly outgoing, because I was looking for certain types of people to be my friends. I expected people to come to me lol.

I figured out later on that the best way to make friends would be to be outgoing. However, at this point it was almost 2 months into school. At this point most of the new freshman had found groups of people they were comfortable with. I missed my opportunity.

At my school it's considered strange to be overly outgoing, espescially with someone you never met before. Lunchtime is also very difficult. You can't just go sit at a table with a bunch of people you've never met before.

I'd really just like to know how to make some close friends.

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Try making friends with someone you sit next to in one of your lessons, slowly introduce yourself, ans who knos you may find new friends! Be yourself and say whatever feels natural

Good luck

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honestly dont worry about that they wont be there after you graduate just focus on school
Surely you've found people who you'd like to be friends with. Start talking to them. It's never too late to make friends.
omg thats the exact same thing i went through... i'll stick around to see what people say
It helps to TALK to people. Find someone you might be interested in, and then talk to them about something you like. If they seem to be uninterested... then ask them what they like. After that ask them who theyw ere planning on sitting with at lunch. Say oh that's cool, mind if I join in? Then It wouldent be awkward sitting at their table. He will introduce you to everyone and make sure to not be quiet. Soon you will have a whole group of friends!
if i was in ur high school i would be ur friend listen just be ur self people will eventually see that ur the kind of guy they want to habg out with
omg you have no idea.. i just transferred to a new school and i feel the same.. with lunch and with friends and depressed, everything! I really have no idea what to do cuz im in the same situation but good luck.

I feel like my friends cant say anything to me and i feel replaced. 10 PTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

hello, lets call my 2 friends friend 1 %26amp; friend 2.

friend 1 and 2 had a fight the other day and they apologized so now they're CLOSE to each other. friend 1 would always say stuff to me until friend 2 apologized.. she would talk about music, her life, and other random stuff.

now that they've gone closer, friend 1 always talks to friend 2 about music, her life, and other random stuff. all she ever say to me was "hi, how are you. i love you" i know she said she loves me but "actions speak louder then words". is it just me or her?

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You smell, take a shower.

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It's your friend. She must have really missed friend 2. Don't worry it will blow over and then you'll all be talking together about music, life, and other random stuff. If it doesn't blow over it's her fault for losing a great friend(not yours!).Look into to finding another friend you can talk to about music, life, and other random things. Good Luck [with your friends]!!!!!!
ok hunny. first of all dont let this get to you. If they are real friends then it will pass by. I'm not sure how old u are and if your young then am not trying to partonise you, but its apart of friendship and growing up. U will find as u get older and meet new friends, you will learn to understand that you can happily have a circle of friends without any bother at all. Even in adult life, you can have the same experiences. Dont worry about it and just take it as it comes. If they are slagging u off then they are not true friends. hope this helps in some way x
Mabe your friends are still repairing the friendship.Friend 1 knows you are a friend and you two didn't have a fight.Give them some time and don't let yourself be left out of the fun talk,join in with them and all 3 of you will have fun just like friends should..

My two best friends are leaving me out?

My best friend of like 4 years and me recently became really close to a girl called jaz and we were like all best friends but when i went away over the half term, jaz and my best friend spent like every day together and hung out with a new little group of friends and now im back they seem to plan their weekends with their new friends without me and kinda blank me a bit at school which kinda gets to me but my best friend also spent a lot of time bitching about jaz and how much she annys her at school , which i admit i joined in with but thats why i try and not spend a lot of time with jaz because i dont like being two faced, she can just be quite hard to get on sometimes but i dont understand why my best friend is doing this to me and leaving me out ? xx

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You have to understand that little saying "life goes on with or without you" and it looks like that is what happened. I do not think they do it to wiz you off they have just really grown to know each other and that's the part you missed while you were gone. You will have to express your feelings of being left out and hear them out too.

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I guess she is not your best friend anymore. See if you can get involved with something extracurricular and make new friends.

Two friends dating, now I have lost both of them and feel left out?

I have two best friends, one girl, one guy, the girl had been dating the same person for two years. Then one day breaks up with him only to start dating my guy friend two weeks latter. This is all fine, but now my guy friend wont talk/hang out with me like he use to, and all she wants to do is talk about our guy friend (who she is now dating). I have been keeping my mouth shut about the situation, but it is getting to be really annoying.

Is it bad for me to feel so left out and abandoned? Especially when I find out they have ditched my plans with them to be with each other? What can I say and do as the friend?

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Well i have been best friend's with this guy for three years, and he recently started(6 months ago) dating a girl, named Kaitlin. Well Kaitlin and i became really good friends. I feel left out when im with them.

I guess it's normal too feel this way, what i did was make new friends, and your old friends will say stuff like "I never get too talk too you anymore" and say "Well that's because you are always with so and so, and since you guys are always together, i decided too get my self a life"

Good luck

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I have the same feeling sort of, except my friends aren't dating. They are just pretending they aren't more than friends, which is more confusing.

I'm not usually excluded from their plans, however I'm often the one of the last ones invited. Like they forgot I was their friend.

I think it's bad to feel left out. But I am not sure what to do about it. I'm sad, hurt and want to get back what we had.
just bide your time and things will straighten themselves out
o.k. tell them that you feel left out and that their abandoning you. get together with your girl friend and make a night that you all can spend friend time together. or make up a night were they spend the night together and then the day after you spend lunch with him hanging out and that night you spend time with her having a girl's night.
Start making plans with other people. Find new friends.

My two friends got in a fight last year, and i sort of got into it and now all these kids dont want

last year 2 of my friends got into a fight and i sided with one friend and told the other one off. now i am paying for it because a ton of kids dont want to be my friend now (a lot of them were good friends!) When i attempted to talk to some of them they told me they dont like me because they dont like my other friend, i dont think this is fair. i miss all of my friends and i try and ignore them when they are mean to me but it isnt working, any suggestions?

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ok well heres what u have to do. try and work it out with ur friends. dont let the ur other friends stand in the way. if u feel its that important, prepare urself and go for it. if they wont talk to you or ignore u then maybe there not that good of a friend and u dont need them in ur life. i think that if its been going on for so long then maybe it wont mmagically get better. u need to give it more time.