Hi i just started high school and i was there for 4 days str8 i didnt really talk to people, but i do kno a 2nd year and i sit at lunch with her, she isnt a close friend but shes nice :), i was than out for 17 days casue of a family thing, i came back and well everyone kindof got into there groups or like that :(, well im on my 11 day and i still havent made any friends in my school and my friend is saying that i have a problem casue she made friends on the first day, Note im freakin shy....she isnt, and im worried about making friends and if im not going to. Did anyone else go through this????
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Here is a Christian answer, you've been warned:
In case you or someone else doesn't know, a friend is anyone who believes and feels what you do about God. If you hate him, then anyone who hates him is your friend, though not necessarily a close friend, and if you love God, then anyone else who loves him is your friend, though not necessarily a close one. By the way, a person who loves God is someone who obeys him, and you can find out what he wants in the Bible (the ten commandments are very easy to understand).
The easiest way to make friends (but this is not why I did it) that I've discovered, is by becoming a Christian (which you can find out how through my profile). Although you'll gain over 100 million friends as a Christian, like I said before they obviously they won't automatically be the close kind of friends you are hoping for at the moment, that takes some work.
You become a close friend to someone else by obeying God, by obeying his commandments, which helps bring peace, even to people who hate him. Doing good deeds will also improve your chances of making a close friend. Help some people who are needy or homeless or need help carrying a heavy backpack.
Don't engage in vain activities such as climbing a mountain for fun. There is little good that can be accomplished by wasting your time climbing a mountain unless you need the training so that you can help people who live in the mountains.
Also, you'll also gain billions of enemies by becoming a Christian, but, you can, if you get good enough, or if God is willing, persuade others who hate you, to become Christians.
Don't pretend to be what you aren't. I find it disgusting when people are pretentious, which means arrogant-talking. Be friendly and care about others as much as you do yourself, even to hateful people.
Wear your beliefs, like on your shirt or using a symbol. That may attract like-minded people who will want to get to know you better.
Another way, ask people what they believe and like to do for fun (not at the same time) when they are not busy doing something really complicated, or trying to party, etc.
Another way is to create a group meant to talk about certain things or do certain that people from your school or community may be interested in. For example, you can make a Bible Prophecy group, and state pick some verse or passage or subject to talk about that week after class or on a certain day during the week, or a group on a certain game like "Go" and have rewards for people who beat a certain number of players.
You can also offer to help students with certain subjects if you are good at one and have the time to, by posting a bulletin somewhere in your school if you have one. You can put some "junk" email that people can use to let you know they want your help in case you get some psychotic spammer.
Another way is to attend a church, especially a Bible study. There is always some Christian, at least in a large group, willing to talk to you. And if the teacher is good, you can compliment him for doing a good job.
If your town is a boring one, and there is a spot where people tend to hang out when they are bored, I would also go there to get to know them. There was one like that were I used to live.
Remember: more important than making more friends, is being a good friend.
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go up to anyone and say anything that's funny or a normal greeting
you should loosen up a bit %26amp; casually talk to people but don't start randomly approaching people because then they'll think you're a weirdo. talk to the people you have class with that is usually the best way for me. but don't worry about it, people will come around. it is not always easy to find people who share the same interests as you.
Yea i went something similar why don't you hang out with your friend unless she doesn't go to the same school but go up to people start a conversation that way you have some face time with some people that should help you start out
You just need to get out of your shell. I used to be like that but before seventh grade I just told myself, "I am going to make lots of friends and be more outgoing, and I will be a lot happier." And it worked! Sometimes you just have to push yourself out of your comfort zone- talk to people you don't know. Don't be picky about who you talk to, just talk too anyone and you are garunateed to make new friends. Good Luck!
i made friends the first day to and i know not 1 person.
don't worry about it!!
im extremely shy and i have lots of friends there!!!
just try talking to some people in your class... thats what i did and then it went on from there...
Best of Luck
Yeah Its pretty lame being a freshmen...However..
I went throught the same thing when I started and I got friends by just talking to people during class(Like asking questions about what you're learning or whatever).Maybe If I was sitting in a corner or something by myself I hear someone next to me talking abouit something I new about and I kinda join in.Evenually those people I made connections with started talking to me more or I with them and we just became friends.
I know It seems hard to be a lil nooby fresmen but I'll happen on It's own,don't think about it too hard or you might try too hard and get results you don't want
why are u worried
