Sunday, November 29, 2009

I have a friend who has other friends. They won't let me be her friend.?

They take her away all the time and never let me play with her. I tried to sit down and talk to her, but they still just pull her away. So she said that she will pretend that she isn't my friend because if they find out, they won't be her friend. She beleives them instead. I told her that the plan was stupid. We did it anyway. Well now she isn't my friend. I need help, badly! But now her friends are bullying me. They took away 2 of my friends so far. What do I do???????????????????????



The people who are taking her away are:



Caitlyn



Emily



Nicole



Brady



Ricky



My friends WERE:



Tasha



Alex



PLEASE! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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you 2 need to apoligize to eachother. tell her something from your heart, go head juss blunt it out. she'll make the decision. sounds like to me though you need some friend infulence. juss b yourself and tell her, if she cant b herself she doesnt need ta be anyone because she chose them over you. wut kind of friend would do tht? juss remind her of the good times you had before they came in or whenever they did. all is plan



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If she's that shallow, and caves into peer pressure like that... why bother?



If this clique has to be like that, just ignore them all. Find other people to spend time with, and beat them at their own game. Create an Everybody Hates Them club, and recruit.
what the hell are you talking about
get some other friends and show it off to ur friends that went away from u, and show them that u have so much fun with ur other friends, so then they get jealous and then they will be crawling back to u, try it, ive tried it and it worked, now i have my old good friends
Nobody can "take away" your friends. If they are that easily lead, they weren't your friends to begin with. Also, it could be that these girls are threatening your "friends" into doing what they want. This isn't good for any of you.



This is a hard lesson to learn, but in life you can't make people be your friend if they don't want to be. The best you can do is be friendly to everyone and let the true friendships reveal themselves.
screw all of them... b/c in all honesty none of them are friends at all. be independent and do your on thing %26amp; mostly jus focus on school and whats ahead...I am so sure that none of them people are gonna stick around to be in your future %26amp; frankly you don't need them to.
are you 12?



idk what your talking about sorry
I would ditch all those who left you...true friends dont do that to each other...since those girls ditch you for the other crowd...forget them all...



What you need to do is find new friends that they aren't friends with %26amp; start up your own group...make it look like your better than all of them...ignore all of them too...even the 2 that were taking away from you...the more you ignore them %26amp; act like they dont exist to you, the more that'll pissed them off real quick....



People like nicole,brady,ricky,emily, caitlyn are unhappy...they've got screwed up lives that they have to make everyone else misserable, be/c they are misserable...they could be threaten by you...they figure why not make you unhappy by taking your friends away...they must be scared of you to go through all that trouble



I had a 2 friends at times that didn't like each other %26amp; it was hard for me to hang out w/one then the other %26amp; then when it came down to them saying pick either me or her crap...i was like neither than...Oh..yea...they were shocked...i said "if i can't be friends with the both of you, then I dont wanna be friends with either of you"
that means that they are not good friends. Look for other friends.
well i was in the same thing a little bit ago with my friend amber and this girl dezra will dezra would tell amber everything to stop being me friend she would make up stuff all kinds of stuff to get amber to hate me and we got in to lots of fights



and she would even cuss me out and told me that she was going to come beat me up she said she was not me friend no more it hurt me i cried day and night and i told myself that she will be my friend again soon we just need some time a way from eachother will we are friends again because anothir friend calyn told her are you going to believe someone you have been friends with all your life or someone you have been friends with for like 7 months will she helped me and is what i want to ask you are your friends everything to you do you hate the fact that they are gone i did and i did not stop being there for her and never will just what ever you do never stop being there for them if you really love them then dont ever give up if they make fun of you just dont put up with it one day they are going to come back just you see tell yourself they will be back in three days and they will if you really mean it
Well I think that if ur friend really want to be friends with them and be friends w/u she should tell them that if they are gonna go on bullying u shes not gonna be there friend anymore or just stop being her friend if she lets them bully u so much
I know what's happening to you sucks, I've been there. One day everyone stopped talking to me, avoiding me, not returning phone calls. I gave up. I still don't know why it happened. Some of them have come around since then, but they can't even remember why they did it. Don't give them the satisfaction of letting them hurt you. Don't let them know your upset by this. Be the bigger person.

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