Being Friends With an Attractive Female? Impossible?

Growing up I was always something of a tomboy so I had many guy friends. I felt completely comftorable being just "one of the guys" and I loved having them as friends. As I grew older, my appearace changed a lot, and now it's a lot harder to have male friends. My bestfriend thinks it's impossible for me to have guy friends and insists I give up, but I work in a business that is dominated by men and there's really no way around being friends with them.

Can a man be "just friends" with someone he finds attractive? And how can I send the right vibes, so that way he knows I'm not interested?

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You can't. You can be friends, he may not ask for anything more, and may let you think that it's only friendship......but I promise.....if you said, "do you want to sleep with me?" He would say yes, every time. Don't give us men too much credit. We don't deserve it.

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i really dont think its possible FOREVER. you cant be soooo close to a straight guy without him or even you wanting something ONE DAY.
dont flirt with them and only hug them to show any affection.anything more will give them the wrong impression.
Tell us up FRONT, say what you want and make sure it is understood by us men. Now unless he is completly hopeless, he should understand you just fine. I know if you are beautiful luke you say, it would be hard, so tell the man right away your just down to be friends.
Well I believe on the female spectrum we could be just friends w/ guys, but I think that guys can't just leave it at that even if they don't act on it they are probably thinking about it. So it's up to you.
ye jst act ur self and if they try sank jst tell them 2 bck off or even better put an enjament ring on ur finger... then they kno ur out bounds... dwn side 2 this u nvr b able 2 go on da pull and when u d8 and take it off u may have white ring from no tanning there and they thing u are newly divoreced so works both ways ;)
I've allways had alot of girl friends, and most of them happened to be very hott. I think once you start hitting on a hot girl it would be really difficult to be friends with them, if a guy can be himself around you and doesnt make advances it should work great.
Yes, he can. But if you think you're that pretty then maybe you have already sent the vibes.
well. i tried it. but it didnt work, me and my friend Grady were lke best buds but then he started acting really weird and he asked me out.. i said no the first couple of times but the last time i said yes. a day later i broke up with him, it just felt really weird. we had been friends for so long and then us having to start acting like boyfriend and girlfriend just was to much. i broke up with him and then our friendship just went down the drain. he wouldnt talk to me that much anymore. it was really sad. i wouldn't try it. but if you really want to be friends with him.. its your choice of course. Good Luck

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well.. i think its ur way of telling all guys reading this....Im me .. im attracktive....

anyway ..if ur serious... here is a serious answer....

yes u can be "just friends" if u lie down the rules...and put limits from the head start..... make sure the guy ur trying to be friends with knows.. ur intereted in friendship..and only friendship..

tell him things like,,.. i feel like ur my brother.....ur like my best "girlfriend " ever....im glad we are friends......or plain tell him....look... i want us to be friends..... but ..just friends.....

not that hard really........

be care full of jerks....men are pigs.....so....some guys might just not get it....
a man wants two things from any woman 1=to have sex with her and /or /2= wants money .yes you can have friends that are male as you talk about it being at work = money
He can, but it would be hard. What you should do is just flat out tell him you not interested and that you just want to be friends. But if he really likes you like he say he does, he would not find being your friend hard and will get to know you first!!

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That all depends on whether the man can control his feelings. If he can, then he can be friends with an attractive woman. Otherwise, the answer would be "no."

To let him know you're not interested, just be very careful about body language and what you say. Avoid flirting and treat him as you would treat a female coworker (assuming you're straight).
Be yourself and make it known you just want to be friends and nothing else ever. If they know they don't have a chance to get in your pants they will back off, then maybe you can be friends.
just tell this guy right from the stat that all your looking at him 4 is his friendship when your honest men love that in a woman as its a very rear thing c my husband has loads of female Friends and i mean loads and i have loads of male friends see women are the most back stabbing bitches in the world and yes i am a woman but i dnt do things like that but i do no plenty that do just b yourself and things should work out i hope this helps u.x
u can have a guy as ur friend,unless nd until u r in a limit.dont get very personal neither should u discuss ur family or personal problems with them.be very professional,no matter if u look stubborn...if a guy unnecessarily smiles,or tries to touch u or talk unnecessary rubbish, just to prolong time with u them please avoid that guy..its for ur own safety..besides every one is blessed with an extra sharp sense to feel difference in attitudes and behaviours..u can always judge a person from his eyes coz they are a mirror of thoughts and mind..best of luck!!!
Yes its possible but it might have its concequences. Talk to them if they get smotty and let them know how u truly feel. To keep it inside will only hurt urself. pay them no mind if u do might show interest, act urself and always be true to urself. Good Luck!!!
No i have many girl friends and only friends and I can talk to them.

Although there is always an attraction to them we are just friends