I had friends 2 years ago when I first started secondary school but a year later we separated because we all found other people we wanted to be friends with. They made new friends and I wanted to join a group of girls because they seemed nice. At first I wanted to join them because they seemed like friendly, fun girls. I sensed that they didn't really like me but because I didn't have anyone else I tagged around with them. One lunchtime they all (about 30 of them) ran away from me, they planned it. Later, 2 of them came up to me and said that they felt that I didn't really want to be their friend and was just tagging along. They said they'd still speak to me but I know they were just saying that to not sound so mean. Since 7 months ago I've been hanging around on my own every lunchtime. I know people talk about me and call me a loner. I really want friends but everyone seems to have their own group and I feel on my own. I only have mates out of school.
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Girl, you don't need people like that as friends anyway. You need to just be yourself. Try doing things that you enjoy and you might run into someone who enjoys the same rthings that you do.
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Are there some interesting things in school that you could get involved in, such as sports or other out-of-hours activities?
That way, you can make friends in those groups and they would of course have the same interest as you.
Also have some pride in yourself. Hold your head up high and don't tell everyone you're a loser or anything. It's not a crime to be on your own. You just haven't found the right people to be your friends yet and don't tag on to people or groups out of desperation for friends. Play it cool and things will work out.
im havin the exazt same problem its so bad that i cant even go to school now it sucks i have to find a group but every1 is turned against me now cuz im in a fight with 1 person srry i cant help much!!!
You have friends out of school? Then concentrate on that. If they're good friends, then you can spend the time you feel alone in school looking forward to being with your friends, or thinking about the good times you had with them in the past. I know it's hard to be like that, especially when you're in a place where everybody seems to be bent on doing you harm and wanting to make you hurt. The best thing you can do is not let them. Ignore it. Why should you care what people think who you don't care about and who don't care about you? If it's any consoloation, i've been living like that since i was five years old. I'm forty-two, and still the same story. But it's taught me to love myself and f--k what the whole world may think. The true love of one sincere friend is worth all the fairweather friends and haters in the world. Quality, not quantity. 'Belonging', 'fitting in' and being 'popular' isn't all it's cracked up to be. In fact, it's a load. Only losers are desperate to belong because they've decided to have nothing of their own to offer.
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