Friends to Dating to Friends?

I am in such inner turmoil right now. A good friend wanted to start dating--so we did. I was getting attached. After a couple of months, she just went cold and told me she just wanted to be friends. I was hurt and just told her that I needed to distance myself for a while. She got angry and thought that I was pulling back from the friendship to try to hurt her in return. I really just needed time to pull myself together. She still wants to go out at the same frequency as friends, and we do, but I just can't turn my feelings off like a switch. It's really starting to get uncomfortable for me, but we have been friends for such a long time. I really don't know what to do.

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You crossed the line of no return, and it's really hard to get back. Occaisionally you can, but the best thing for you right now is to get some distance. If she can't understand that you are hurt and you need time to mend then maybe she really isn;t such a good friend. Sounds to me like she is being very selfish.

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That's what happens when friends date! You screwed yourself that way. Best thing to do is spend alot of time apart .
It sounds like this girls got a firm grip on your nuts. You don't have to be friends with her if you don't want to. It's not her call to make. If you don't want to see her for a while, don't
Ask her if you can still get it as friends
All I can say is just take your time and maybe things will go back to normal, but it's hard because once you cross that line from friendship to dating I think it complicates your friendship even more and then when you break up it's hard to just be a friend to the other person because you have deeper feelings involved than just a friend.
needed some time is completely normal. Just assure her of your intentions (she is probably really vulnerable right now and hurting too). You will need to keep communication open even if you do not want to hang around with her just to keep her from getting nervous
Try letting her know how you feel. Obviously you had more feelings involved than she did, that is why it is easier for her to pull away......
I'm dating my Friend as well you can do this it what I would do Tell her that you gave her what she wanted and you did acknowledge her feelings so she needs to do the same
sure why not
i wood never date my friend becase it wood mess up the friendship