Balancing friends and girlfriend?

i've found myself struggling to make both ends happy. my friends give me a hard time coz i'm always with my g/f. my g/f does the same coz she feels i hang out with my friends too much. in short, if i were to split up days of the week between the two, my g/f gets 4 and my friends get 3 on average i would say. i think that's fair. i also think having a good balance of time between friends and g/f is healthy. i can't satisfy both. i like having both but i feel like i'm alienating soem of my friends and not paying enough attention to my g/f. help!

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Determine what's more important to you, your friends or your girlfriend. If you're a teenager, you're too young to have a serious relationship for the reason that you feel you can't be with your friends. If you can't hang out together, then you'll have to chose.

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make it clear to both your girlfriend and your friends that you are A) only one person, and B) doing your very best not to leave anyone in a lurch. explain to your girlfriend that it is important that you both remain individuals, and that it's important to spend time with your friends. you want her to hang with her girls, and you want to hang with your guys--guilt free. explain to your buddies that you need to have time with your girlfriend, but will make sure to continue to spend time with them. your "time split" is great--but where is the time for just YOU?

this is something you have to deal with as you get older, and it will certainly be an eye-opener, and show you who your true friends are--the ones who accept that you have to share your time with someone else vs. the ones who constantly give you crap about it. those are generally the people who are relationship-less, and don't get it. they're not worth your time if they can't be happy for you, and accept that they have to share.

people grow up, they get relationships, and pair off, and have to adjust their time accordingly. keep doing what you're doing, and let the rest fall into place. the good friends will stick around, and be happy to see you whenever they get the chance. the rest will fall away, and there's nothing you can do about it, sadly.

good luck!

Male friends?

How do i make more male friends? i come off somewhat serious around guys. More like intimidating. I would like guys as friends but they attract to me in a more than friends way. I'm not a flirt so it ends up as neither a relationship nor a friendship. And sometimes i just want to chill and relax with them not date them. How do i make more male friends and how do i come off as a friend to guys?

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I had just the opposite problem when in High School. The only girls I knew were my friends! (I used to joke that I couldn't buy a date!)

I would say, just be yourself. Talk to guys just like you talk to your other friends. Some of them will want to be friends, some will want more, some may want less. Your best relationships will always be your friends.

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like if da guys r pl,aying sports or video games and all tat boy stuff they do try 2 play wit them boys like girls who play like football, basketball, and actually act like a boy in the games like sliding, tackling, and evrythn then u can becum there friends they like girls who get down in the dirt wit them

Help with friends!!?

I have lots of friends. But not as many as my popular friends have. But heres the bad part, i have kinda 2 groups of friends. 1. kinda popular, nice (to me), caring, and have alot in common with me.

2. normal, casual, friends. they dont have alot in common with me, but we are really great friends.

my question is, its hard being in 2 groups of friends. you know? like, "oh sit with me at lunch!!'' "oh i cant". so how do i handle this?! i really dont want to choose one group!

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Okay the way I see it you should merge these two groups together to form your own gand of super class friends!

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Then don't choose. You can still be friends with both. Maybe alternate who you sit with each day, or spend lunch with one group but recess with the other or some other simmilar arrangement.
some days sit with group 1 and then the other days sit with group 2... or try to get all of you to sit together.... or you should be close to the popular ones since you have more in common with them then the normal casual friends...but i would just try to get everyone to sit together and meet each other so you wouldn't have to go through all of this....
well you said you don't want to choose one group but in the end you'll have to if your worried about those types of questions thrown at you. you need to decide who you want to be with or else you have to somehow help GROUP 1 become friends with GROUP 2. and if you're still not sure what you want to do then weigh your options of which friends are better to you and also make a list of what you want in a friend. compare the two and if one sticks out above the other then you'll know your answer.

BEST OF LUCK!

My friends piss me off! help?

Well at my school I hang with about seven different chicks and like 2 guys but a few have been getting under my skin lately!

One of my friends thinks she perfect and belives every boy in the world loves her!

And 5 out of the 7 of my friends likes the same guy (who is also our friend) they are all fighting over him and it's pulling us all apart!

it's getting violent and bitchy,my friends are all hating each other fighting,crying making up rumors about each other!

he only likes 1 of the girls but the other 4 girls can't get over it!and the fighting begins again!

how can I get all of friends to stop prentending that they are perfect and to get them to stop fighting over HIM?

any advice?

PLEASE!

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real freinds don't fight over a guy. Cut them loose and keep it moving.

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It sounds like your friends have a healthy level of self esteem. There are so many people at the moment who don't like themselves. My advice is readjust your focus. Appreciate the little things about your friends. Remind yourself that this guy is only a passing phase, there will be other guys, similar things will happen. Its not about what they are doing, its about how you react to it.

I feel like my friends cant say anything to me and i feel replaced. 10 PTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

hello, lets call my 2 friends friend 1 %26amp; friend 2.

friend 1 and 2 had a fight the other day and they apologized so now they're CLOSE to each other. friend 1 would always say stuff to me until friend 2 apologized.. she would talk about music, her life, and other random stuff.

now that they've gone closer, friend 1 always talks to friend 2 about music, her life, and other random stuff. all she ever say to me was "hi, how are you. i love you" i know she said she loves me but "actions speak louder then words". is it just me or her?

I feel like my friends cant say anything to me and i feel replaced. 10 PTS FOR BEST ANSWER?love girls myspace

You smell, take a shower.

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It's your friend. She must have really missed friend 2. Don't worry it will blow over and then you'll all be talking together about music, life, and other random stuff. If it doesn't blow over it's her fault for losing a great friend(not yours!).Look into to finding another friend you can talk to about music, life, and other random things. Good Luck [with your friends]!!!!!!
ok hunny. first of all dont let this get to you. If they are real friends then it will pass by. I'm not sure how old u are and if your young then am not trying to partonise you, but its apart of friendship and growing up. U will find as u get older and meet new friends, you will learn to understand that you can happily have a circle of friends without any bother at all. Even in adult life, you can have the same experiences. Dont worry about it and just take it as it comes. If they are slagging u off then they are not true friends. hope this helps in some way x
Mabe your friends are still repairing the friendship.Friend 1 knows you are a friend and you two didn't have a fight.Give them some time and don't let yourself be left out of the fun talk,join in with them and all 3 of you will have fun just like friends should..

My friend has a crush on me but i just wanna b friends?

my friend has a crush on me but i just wanna be friends infact i have a huge crush on his other best friend i have 2 tell him sumtime soon that i like his friend but dont wanna brake his haert plzzzzz help

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Ooh thats tough. All you can do is be honest. Its better to break his heart earlier on than it is to wait a long time.

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some guys like it better when u r honest but some may want u 2 lie 2 them . srry thats all i can say p.s. i was reading this out of M mag
Date them both two is better then one if your dont like that idea then date the best friend and have a friend with benefiet
if you two are close friends, you should be able to talk it out.

he might be uncomfortable around you after that. and dating his best friend? well, don't tell him you like his best friend. don't date his friend for a long time after you reject your friend.
the only thing to do is tell him how you feel and that you are not trying to hurt him.
I don't see how that's going to work. If he has a crush on you then don't go hitting on his best friend. Just tell him that you want to be friends, I have a friend that makes friends with girls in a strange way, and all my other friends always think that he has a crush on any new girl that comes into the group. He asures me he doesn't and I believe him. Are you sure this fella's just not a really good friend?
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My old friends and I are falling apart?

I had a friend (let's call her Girl A) and there was another girl who I didn't know and she had a friend (let's call her Girl B). I met Girl B and we became friends. Then I introduced Girl A to Girl B. Girl B ditched her old friend and now we were all together. Now a year later it feels like they have completely changed. During the summer they were together but didn't invite me and now they don't even talk to me and ignore me and we don't even sit at lunch together. I feel like introducing them to one another has been the biggest mistake I've ever made! I have met new people this year but none of them really match my personality. I want to still be friends with Girl A but I doubt it will happen. Over the year they have gotten more popular than me. Do you think that affected our friendship? Are they embarrassed of me? How can we be friends again? I don't want to be alone this year and the next year. What happened? I don't feel comfortable talking to them about this. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?

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I feel ur pain.That same thing hapened to me.I had this friend and we were best friends for a year but then next year she started to change.She always got bored wen we talked and got an unusual habit of chaseing and following boys,wich i thought was ridiculous.Then she started hanging out with the popular kids a it seemed like she forgot about about me.At that time i thought that it was my fault she changed and i wished i could be friends with her agan but it didnt hapen.She didnt even invite me to her birthday!Now im glad im not her friend.I thouoght she was my friend,but she turned out too be a super SNOB!Now evryone in the whole school hates her exept for her mindless drone.

So heres my advice:

I your not friends with them anymore,its their loss.You cant expect to make friends with someone and be there friends for life.Heres the deal: People change.Friends change.I no u want her back the way she was before,but somtimes u just hafta deel with it.Ull make new friends.Trust me.I no i did!

Besides,mabye ur friend will turn into a super snob just like mine!LOL!

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If they just ditched you, they weren't your friend to begin with.

I keep telling my daughter to stay to herself. If she wants friends have one main one and the others as associates because too many friends is too many personalities. And things like what just happened to you will happen.

There are so many people in the world and in school. Just do what they are doing. Find a new friend, don't even worry about them because chances are if you trust their friendship agian they may do the same thing to you again.
keep trying, give them calls tell them you want to hang out and stuff.

Keep trying and if nothing changes after awhile give it up let go and move on ppl change and grow apart its apart of life.

"Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. What is meant to be will end good and what is not wont. Relationships are worth fighting for but sometimes you can鈥檛 be the only one fighting. At times people need to fight for you. If they don't you just gotta move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Hopefully people realize great things when they come around and don't lose something real. Always fight until you can't anymore and then be fought for."

-Erin Drury
I hate to say this but ppl osmetimes grow apart. keep trying to make new friends.
I know exactly how you feel. i have two best friends and i would call one of them and then i would suggest to call the other one on three way. then i would end up the quiet one and they seemed to talk the whole time to each other not me. is what i did was i invited both of them over one at a time . and they came and we had a great time. then they saw that i was still there friend. and now everything is fine. i hope i was some help to you. =)

To all my friends out there I want to wish a Happy Friendship Day.?

Can you share the messages you received with me on this day. Here are a few that I got from my friends.....

Aap ki duniya asma hai to sitare aap k dost honge. Un sitaro me humme na dhundhna kyon ki app ki tamanna puri karne wale tutate Tare hum honge.

My mom always told me that we could never measure our wealth by money but by our friends. She would surely be glad to meet you and know how rich I turned out to be!

I'm glad friendship doesn't come with price tags. For if it does, I'd never afford someone as great as you.

God in heaven, God above, please protect the friend I love. Sent with a smile, sealed with a kiss, I love my friend who's reading this.

The nicest place these days is right beside your friends. Usog konti, tabi ako!

You brighten my day, di ka naman araw. You light up my life, di ka naman ilaw. You make me smile, di ka naman bulalakaw. You warm my heart, di ka naman sabaw. Friend kita, yan malinaw!

A friend is sweet when it is new. And it is sweeter when it is true. But you know what? It is sweetest when it is you.

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"Who finds a faithful Friend finds a tresure"-Jewish saying

A Friend like u is a precious GEM.

Hard to find,

Difficult to part with

and treasured forever.

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!

To a friend who is always close to my heart.

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Friendship grows out of chance.........

Meeting a mere glance and then a smile.....

And touches the Heart in more way than one !

I'snt it great how we have grown....

From being perfect strangers...

to whom we are today !

Im so fortunate to have found a wonderful friend like u !

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY !!!

Have a nice day and enjoy with ur friends!

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thanks a lot
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HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY TO YOU.
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Wish you the same. Happy friendship day.
thnx and same to u
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Boyfriend and his friends?

I'm going to break up with my bf soon. We are just too different and I want someone new. he's not a "let's still be friends" kind of guy, so he's going to hate me for at least a little while. The prob. is that my bf's best friend is dating my best friend, and I would really like to stay friends with his best friend, but I won't be able to if my bf hates me. Also, I like a few of my bf's other friends but I don't think they would ever date me because they want to be loyal to their friend. What do I do?

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The decision to break up or not should be yours based on how you feel about your bf, not about how you feel about his best friend will treat you afterwards. I'm guessing that, sure, he'll be stand-offish with you for a bit, but will soon realize that if he's dating your best friend that you are part of the package. He may surprise you and be more mature that you're giving him credit for and be friends with you despite the relationship you had with his friend. Also, you bf's friends will not hold it against you....they probably wish you were theirs right now if it wasn't for him.

There's no sense in staying in the relationship if it isn't going anywhere, so break up and let the chips fall where they may!

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I think~ you should dump your boyfriend.

Then still hang out with his friends.

Don't get in a tangled up relationship with them and look for other boys. =]
Get a life and quit worrying about pointless stuff.
Make him break up wiht you, get moody.
find different people
dont go after his freinds.... he would gate u forever then... i mean think how you would feel is your ex bf started dating your good freind... you might think its not a big deal bt then there would be jealousy and ****.. you dont want that......but if u really want a guy holla at me...:P
have him break up with you . ?
thats such a freaky situation!!!

i think all you can do is end it :S what else? be a prisoner of his love? xD

end it :S
make him break up with u
you sound a bit like my ex gf...now of which i dont talk to, dont go for one of his mates, that would hurt him heaps
first off they sound like jerks if he still wont be friends with you. you should be friends with some one before you can date them. so inturn if u stop dating them then u should still be friends. if he likes u then he will understand. Unless u were just dating him because he was hot and a good kisser.
Break up with him if your not happy. It would have ended eventually. Stay close to your friend but you don't really need to be close to his other friends.

I wouldn't date any of his other friends....try dating outside the circle.
yea break up and move on. nothing is worse then people dating within a group to where everyone just dates each other at different times, theres other guys
Too bad for them. If your friendship with some people is contingent upon who you're dating, it doesn't make sense to consider them friends.

Additionally, what were you thinking, that you could date some of his friends once you end it with him? It's possible. You probably couldn't get away with it while you're still together, right? You'd be surprised at how willing some of his friends are to date you after you brake up with him. Believe me, they're not all going to be so loyal. Clearly you're not and neither are all of them.
The fact that you like his friends is just another reason to break up! Liking your BF's friends is messed up so it's probably good your breaking up with him if your feelings are drifting.
DONT DATE HIS FRIENDS JUST BREAK UP WITH HIM IF NOT HAPPY AND MAYBE STILL CAN BE FRIENDS WITH HIS FRIENDS END IT NICELY AS YOU CAN
The best breakups are very up front, honest and to the point. It will probably cause some friction with his friend and your friend but it won't last long - everyone will get over it.
Just tell him the truth. His friends would probably ask him before they decided to be ur bf.
um you could either break up with him and lose a bunch of friends. you could stay with him and just go with the relationship for a little longer and see what happens. or which would prolly work out the best, get him to break up with you, and then just be ok with it. he's gonna feel bad so he's not going to hate you, and then you can do w/e you want with his friends or w/e.
Break up with your b/f. Do it respectfully and be honest with him, and then don't worry about it. You'll still be friends with your friends, if they were really your friends. Just pretend like nothing has changed in your friendship. Be friends with his girlfriend, and be friendly to him. It's not a big deal, he'll still be friends with you. There's no reason for him to hate you just because you broke up with his best friend.
if there is nothing between you and your bf then there is not alot between you and his friends. and the best thing to do is find some new mates
Break up with him and deal with whatever comes....haha...what else would you do? Just don't go getting involved with a 'mutual friend'. That would be silly
Your weird why would u date him if you like his friend. $$$$$$$$$$$$ huh is it for the money tell me. Just kidding do what your heart tells you to do if you do that youll never go wrong. Also dont ask ppl about those things.
if i were u, i would talk to his best friend. tell him what u're going to do and that u still want to be friends with him no matter what happens. he would understand if he's mature enough. dating his other friends is not a good idea. u will just hurt urself and loose the chance of being friends with them.

well it's just my opinion. depends on u. good luck :) and happy new year!
I think that you should take his friends to the side and personally tell them that you appreciate their friendships and you don't want to lose them. Let them know that what goes on between you and your boyfriend is strictly just between you two and that you hope your future ex-boyfriend's opinion doesn't hurt their opinion of you as well. If you still want to be their friend, then that means that they are already your friends. They should understand. If they don't understand, then they weren't really worth the time and effort, as horrible as that may sound. I hope that helps!
i had the same problem a couple weeks ago i just asked a friend that he had and was my friend too and he said he wouldnt hate me but he also told his friend i planned on dumping him... but it didn't do all bad i mean ya he was mad but also he was pepaired... so it wasnt lie a shock... but ya... it wasn't my best plan but it worked... only thing is that my ex is begging me to get back with him....
if you want to break up with him then break up with him or try to work things out..but dont go out with your boyfriends friends cuz thts wrong he will def hate you but i doubt they will stop being your friend cuz you guys broke up. good luck
Don't try to make your boyfriend's friends choose between you and him. If they want to continue being friends with you let them make the effort. As far as dating your ex-boyfriend's friends...not a good idea. Your ex-boyfriends friends are going to have zero respect for you if you start going after them, so you won't want to date them anyway. Find some new people to hang out with and some new guys to be attracted to.
If you break up with him maturely, you wouldn't have to deal with all the childish attitude towards each other.

Just friends or more than friends? Not sure what is going on...?

Met a wonderful girl in Boston where I live, in the beginning we were just friends and didn't expect more, but as soon as we started seeing a lot of each other we quickly developed into lovers. We were both in another relationship at the time, and she broke up with her boyfriend (to my surprise),but I didn't leave my girlfriend for her and while I suspect that it broke her heart a little, she said it was for the best and we just reverted to being friends again. Now, a year later, and i've realized i still care a lot for her and am trying to work out if we still have a chance.She still sends strong signals, but when it comes up explicitly,laughs %26amp; says that she only sees me as a friend and couldn't imagine us having ever been a couple (this after she hounded me for weeks to break up with my gf %26amp; be with her).Is she just afraid of being rejected again or have i really killed this one?Do girls ever say they just want to be friends, for fear of losing control, when they really want more?

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She doesn't want to pressure you, as she enjoys your friendship and you have fun together, and she doesn't want to lose that. She might have resolved with herself that if it was meant to be than it was meant to be. If you are still with the GF then drop it but if you are single, start SLOW (don't bumrush anything) and take things from there.

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could be.....

i think she probably still likes you...
hmm...well, i think she still wants to be with you, but is afraid of rejection. i guess you can try talking to her about it, so that you guys can sort out your feelings and see if you want to start a relationship. but its true about what you said, some girls say they just want to be friends for the fear of losing control when they want more, ive done that too many times...its not very rewarding.
She loves you.If you have felings for her go and tell her.She is waiting.
If it came down to a choice between the old g/f or the new g/f, which would you choose? And could you HONESTLY STILL BE FRIENDS with the...err...loser?

To be honest, I can't go backwards from a serious relationship to just a "let's be friends" non-commital friendship" with a woman! Simply because I've been too emotionally close!

It's nice to want to "stay in touch" with a former lover or spouse, but realistically...how many of us DO?
it could be that you already hurt her and she is afraid of being hurt again.
I think she still likes you. But, she thinks you feel differently about her and don't want to be hurt again. Since she broke off with her b/f and you stayed with your old g/f. She probably feels that you don't care for her like she does you. Like it is sort of a one sided type thing. If you really want to know, maybe you should talk to her about the relationship both of you had before. Since she is trying to save her heart and won't admit that she wants a "lover" relationship with you. Maybe you could let her know how you really feel about her. It might open the door for her to be a little more honest with you about her feelings.

Friends not likeing friends; HELP?

ok well i have a really good friend [[ one of my bestfriend]] and she talks about all my other friends. and then all my other friends talk about her. and like i dont know what to do like when my bestfriend talks about everyone like i dont want to be rude. but then i also dont want to talk about them. and then same with my other friends that talk about my bestfriend. i mean what do i do.

and even if i agree with what that person is saying about the other person, i just keep my mouth shut and then they get kinda mad.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?.

thank you.

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Tell them that you aren't the best person to talk about these things. If you are friends with both of them, then they should respect your other friends. Be brave and tell them that you would greatly appreciate it if they didn't talk about your friend(s) like that without being too commanding. Tell them that they/she are/is your friend(s) too.

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well... i tink u should tell them that u really dont want 2 get invovled in the discusion(even though u wanna) tell them that u dont feel right talking bout ur other friend/friends...
ugh same thing with me. except i have like four different cliques that i hang out with and none of them like each other. just remind them that the other people are your friends and that they dont have to like them, just dont talk about them. do as much as you can to keep them away from each other too haha
I have the same problem with my friends. Its a very tricky situation, I understand.

I think you should try talking to your friends and best friend about how you feel about when they talk about others and that it kinda hurts. Explain to them.

Or just ignore it or change the subject. Thats what I do.

Hope it all works out!!!
I had a best friend who no one liked and all my other friends hated her too. I finally got sick of listening to them talking **** as it seems you have too and just told them to stop it.

tell your best friend that she is your best friend but they are your friends too so leave it alone or your going to have to stop talking to her and then tell the other friends the same thing.

Then you should let them know that thier being pretty damn selfish putting you in that sort of situation where you have to pick and choose. Let them know you don't ask them to hang out with her so stop making it hard on you to hang out with her

Also just to let you know your truely a great person becuz your not giving in to peer pressure. or hanging with only the kool kids.
yo is this about me????

becuase if it is naw girl.

becuase we both do our even ammount of talking shiz.

and even if i fotn agree i just let u let it out okae so if it is no.

lol no need to get krunk witcha girl.

but sersiouly is it about me omg ima scream cause i dont talk that much crap only about that one blonde chick ya know.

All my friends left me, who's mistake was it?

My very jealous closest friend distanced herself from me when she suspected I made friends with someone she hated. As a result, I'm here with no real close friends and one very popular new friend who never has time for anything.

Should I just walk away, wait for an apology or move on with my life and focus all this energy on my college courses? Or should I look for new, better friends?

If you've ever been betrayed by your friends..leave your story, I'd love some company.

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I have certainly been betrayed by several friends and when it happens it's really awful especially when it's happened more than once.

You seriously need to find some real friends as false friends are very emotionally draining.

I try not to live in the past so I will take the option of leaving some advice on what to do about it.

Know who your friends are. Don't tell random people your thoughts on someone else. It will result in disaster.

If someone wants something kept secret, keep it to yourself.

If you tell, not only will you ruin the trusting relationship you had with the person who told you, but you will probably end up getting mad at the person who you told.

Stick with your true friends until the end. They will be the only lifelines you have in some situations.

Avoid arguments. Arguing about something makes everything worse.

If an argument occurs, make sure both sides of the story are clear. You don't want people to go along with one story, correct?

Don't lie. Simple enough. Just don't.

Tips - Keep a positive attitude through everything, but not too positive so it looks like you don't care about the whole situation.

Talk to someone about it, whether it be a friend, counselor, whatever. Get it out, write it down. Don't cramp it all in your head!

If there is a person/friend that is creating drama and you don't like it, then let go of that person. You can't deal with your drama AND theirs!

Warnings - Don't lie. It will all come back to you.

Don't follow fake friends. They'll get you into more trouble.

Do not let any information go out to just anyone. Rumors will progress, and you will be in deep trouble.

Tips on making new friends -

Join a club or take up a hobby. If you have trouble fitting in, clubs and activities out of school will give your confidence a boost. Choose something you like and will enjoy, so if you like sports, join a sports club. If you're more dramatic, join a drama club or dance class. The possiblites are endless!

Try discussing things that interest you with other people. If someone is talking about that show you love or celebrity you admire, without interrupting the conversation, join in and casually say how you just love it too!

Don't change who you are. If there is a clique you want to be part of, don't change your style to fit in. Even if it takes time, I'm sure you'll find a friend or group of friend who like you just the way you are.

Smile! Smiling gives you a real look of confidence and makes you jump out as being happy and fun to be around. More people will like to hang out with you if you look fun.

Keep calm. Don't keep talking about yourself, and keep your words slow and simple. Don't startle people with a big vocabulary or over-excited voice.

Find friends that have the qualites you're looking for. If someone looks funny, don't be shy to talk to them! If you need a friend who is cool and unique, don't just try your school. It's a big world out there, so head out and look!

Penpals are fun and are great if you're too busy to bother with chatty friends. There are great penpal linking websites out there. or if you're not into computers, try asking your school if they could link up with another school and write to them!

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I think you should use that energy to study and you'll find new friends on the way. I recently started a new school and i feel lonely cause all my old friends don't keep in touch with me and I'm not sure why but like my dad told me.. You're always going to be alone o matter how many friends you have because they're just friends but you need to learn to be independent. I still get depressed sometimes about it too but it's just a face everybody goes through at least once in their life don't lose hope you'll make some new friends. And you don't need friends like her trust me. Good Luck
All she did is suspect and that doesnt give her a right to SUSPECT. If your friends left you they arent your friends. Forget about it and move on but for the girl who SUSPECTED I think u need to talk to her.
idk if this will help but

i would say move on and find new freinds cus she shouldnt of distenced herself from you bcus u made friends with someone els

i had freinds that just went away from me bcus i didnt talk to them enough so i had to get totally new freinds and now i only have like 2 freinds and 1 is going away from em agion so idk wht to do eather

gl with w/e u decide to do
same thing happened to me but a little different i became alot closer with an old friend and i tried to keep her she though i was talking about her with this friend but just a week b4 this her new friend turned the whole class aagainst my friend and they were against me also cus i was the only one with her and my old friend was the reason all this happened so it was just me and my best friend abby and the other 2 girls are talking about me sooo much i just ignore[ing] them like they are not worth my enegery and i couldnt care less about them while they are beyond obsessed with talking about me lmaooo its not even funny. with some people they dont even apoligize like in my case the other 2 ppl have this attitude like they are always right even if they are wrong they never apoligize or anythig ughhh i hate people like that =/

heres a good quote 4 what u are going through

" there comes a time in your life when you stop chaseing after people, its not called giving up, its realizing that you dont need certain people the bullsh**and drama they bring"

hope i helped

Where/how to make new friends?

I am a very outgoing person and in college and when I was a freshman I made a lot of friends since I lived close to a lot. However, I am an extreme perfectionist and have learned to be very critical of myself and can read people easily and see through their intentions (my dad made me this way unfortunately, long story). I seem to have a lot of friends, but no TRUE friends or ones I can tell anything to or "best friend" type. I don't know why. I think I am sort of a homebody and sometimes have social anxiety if I don't know anyone. I know it's easy to say well just go out there and make friends, but even if I go out and make friends it seems so many girls these days are shallow, fake, backstabbing, liars, etc etc etc. All the friends I made at college soon led to be one of those. Also, most people out there already have several best friends so I can't just enter into that and suddenly be their best friend...I don't know its just overwhelming I worry I will have no bridesmaids hah

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just go out and act out of your personality. if you are a homebody, go out and act like the person you were in college. you may not feel that way, but act like it, and pretty soon you will feel like it. don't worry, i'm sure you'll have lots of bridesmaids

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bestfriends do come at the right timeand at the right place.. You don't need to search or to find one..it will come to you..maybe not for now..but who knows..you don't know what might happen next..don't feel to bad about that..there's time for you to have the best and a fitted bestfriend for you..it will come soon..goodluck!!!
i really feel for you babes but i think you need to get out there more, you are obviously meeting the wrong type of people, as not everyonr is like that. There are plenty of nice people outthere you're just looking in the wrong places. I'm sure if you find something that you are into you willl meet people that are into the same kind of thing and you will have more in common with them.
I know how you fell I have a hard time too. I tend to make friends with guys better than girls and then girls can sometimes get on my nerves after a while. All I can say is that you will have to take a chance on some people and then you may have to try making friends with older people instead. They don't have to be wearing dentures or anything like that but a few years older than you. Maybe you need to hang around more mature people.

My friend is friends with a girl I like, how can I get her to talk to me?

I really like a girl that is friends with one of my friends. Sometimes we will look at each other and then one of us will turn away. She said "Whoa, did you see that shot" during gym class to her friends. I don't know what I should do since we are not friends but I can tell she doesn't dislike me.

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confidence man confidence your to busy dreaming make the move if you want to know her more dont rush be slow and she might give you the go slow and easy

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hey me again like that other dude said go up to her a lot of guys a my school arent shy they'll all go up to me nerds and hotties so just do it or else if you wait she'll think your not so aggersive which is bad because you want to be aggresive its hot and a girl and boy(man) lol

My friends friend is being bashed, what to do?

My friends friend is in an abusive relationship with a guy. I dont think it is my buisness to interfear in the matters of others. I mean I dont really know her that well, she comes round my friends a few times and stuff.

I come on here regually and answer questions and seem to have a decent success rate, perhaps I should talk to her about it?

PS: She thinks she is deserving of it because she annoys him? I personally think that is a load. I was told this by my friend in confidence so I am sure this is none of my buisness but it irritates me so

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Sorry to say theres not much u can do. Even if u interfere and say something she'll get mad cause her friends said something to you and the friend will be mad at you for sayin wat she told you not too. And you can talk till your blue in the face either way she'll be right back with him in the end

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you can't really help someone that doesn't want to be helped. Until she wakes up and realizes that she needs to leave him alone I dont think there's anything u can do.
Actually anytime you see some one being bashed in a abusive relationship it is your business to at least talk to them and tell them what you see going on. As far as it being her fault that is a load because if she did annoy him that much then he should just go on to some one that doesn't annoy him. There is no reason to abuse any one in any shape or form.

Your friend and her friend may get mad at you for "interfering" but sooner or later they will see that you did it in best interest for her.
Smack him around and let's see how he likes it. Anyways just be there for %26amp; show her that she's worth more than that. She will leave him soon!
I would ask how is doing.... small talk ... maybe she will tell you herself.. then you can tell her what she could do..

there are woman who feel this way becasue they don鈥瞭 know better or there child life they have seen nothing else.

Making close friends in high school? Please help?

Hey everybody. I am a freshman in high school. I came from a small middle school, where I had a ton of friends. All of my friends went to different high schools than I did.

This year I went into the school expecting it to be easy to make friends. I had my head up my ***, and I wasn't particuarly outgoing, because I was looking for certain types of people to be my friends. I expected people to come to me lol.

I figured out later on that the best way to make friends would be to be outgoing. However, at this point it was almost 2 months into school. At this point most of the new freshman had found groups of people they were comfortable with. I missed my opportunity.

At my school it's considered strange to be overly outgoing, espescially with someone you never met before. Lunchtime is also very difficult. You can't just go sit at a table with a bunch of people you've never met before.

I'd really just like to know how to make some close friends.

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Try making friends with someone you sit next to in one of your lessons, slowly introduce yourself, ans who knos you may find new friends! Be yourself and say whatever feels natural

Good luck

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honestly dont worry about that they wont be there after you graduate just focus on school
Surely you've found people who you'd like to be friends with. Start talking to them. It's never too late to make friends.
omg thats the exact same thing i went through... i'll stick around to see what people say
It helps to TALK to people. Find someone you might be interested in, and then talk to them about something you like. If they seem to be uninterested... then ask them what they like. After that ask them who theyw ere planning on sitting with at lunch. Say oh that's cool, mind if I join in? Then It wouldent be awkward sitting at their table. He will introduce you to everyone and make sure to not be quiet. Soon you will have a whole group of friends!
if i was in ur high school i would be ur friend listen just be ur self people will eventually see that ur the kind of guy they want to habg out with
omg you have no idea.. i just transferred to a new school and i feel the same.. with lunch and with friends and depressed, everything! I really have no idea what to do cuz im in the same situation but good luck.

I feel like my friends cant say anything to me and i feel replaced. 10 PTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

hello, lets call my 2 friends friend 1 %26amp; friend 2.

friend 1 and 2 had a fight the other day and they apologized so now they're CLOSE to each other. friend 1 would always say stuff to me until friend 2 apologized.. she would talk about music, her life, and other random stuff.

now that they've gone closer, friend 1 always talks to friend 2 about music, her life, and other random stuff. all she ever say to me was "hi, how are you. i love you" i know she said she loves me but "actions speak louder then words". is it just me or her?

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You smell, take a shower.

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It's your friend. She must have really missed friend 2. Don't worry it will blow over and then you'll all be talking together about music, life, and other random stuff. If it doesn't blow over it's her fault for losing a great friend(not yours!).Look into to finding another friend you can talk to about music, life, and other random things. Good Luck [with your friends]!!!!!!
ok hunny. first of all dont let this get to you. If they are real friends then it will pass by. I'm not sure how old u are and if your young then am not trying to partonise you, but its apart of friendship and growing up. U will find as u get older and meet new friends, you will learn to understand that you can happily have a circle of friends without any bother at all. Even in adult life, you can have the same experiences. Dont worry about it and just take it as it comes. If they are slagging u off then they are not true friends. hope this helps in some way x
Mabe your friends are still repairing the friendship.Friend 1 knows you are a friend and you two didn't have a fight.Give them some time and don't let yourself be left out of the fun talk,join in with them and all 3 of you will have fun just like friends should..

My two best friends are leaving me out?

My best friend of like 4 years and me recently became really close to a girl called jaz and we were like all best friends but when i went away over the half term, jaz and my best friend spent like every day together and hung out with a new little group of friends and now im back they seem to plan their weekends with their new friends without me and kinda blank me a bit at school which kinda gets to me but my best friend also spent a lot of time bitching about jaz and how much she annys her at school , which i admit i joined in with but thats why i try and not spend a lot of time with jaz because i dont like being two faced, she can just be quite hard to get on sometimes but i dont understand why my best friend is doing this to me and leaving me out ? xx

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You have to understand that little saying "life goes on with or without you" and it looks like that is what happened. I do not think they do it to wiz you off they have just really grown to know each other and that's the part you missed while you were gone. You will have to express your feelings of being left out and hear them out too.

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I guess she is not your best friend anymore. See if you can get involved with something extracurricular and make new friends.

Two friends dating, now I have lost both of them and feel left out?

I have two best friends, one girl, one guy, the girl had been dating the same person for two years. Then one day breaks up with him only to start dating my guy friend two weeks latter. This is all fine, but now my guy friend wont talk/hang out with me like he use to, and all she wants to do is talk about our guy friend (who she is now dating). I have been keeping my mouth shut about the situation, but it is getting to be really annoying.

Is it bad for me to feel so left out and abandoned? Especially when I find out they have ditched my plans with them to be with each other? What can I say and do as the friend?

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Well i have been best friend's with this guy for three years, and he recently started(6 months ago) dating a girl, named Kaitlin. Well Kaitlin and i became really good friends. I feel left out when im with them.

I guess it's normal too feel this way, what i did was make new friends, and your old friends will say stuff like "I never get too talk too you anymore" and say "Well that's because you are always with so and so, and since you guys are always together, i decided too get my self a life"

Good luck

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I have the same feeling sort of, except my friends aren't dating. They are just pretending they aren't more than friends, which is more confusing.

I'm not usually excluded from their plans, however I'm often the one of the last ones invited. Like they forgot I was their friend.

I think it's bad to feel left out. But I am not sure what to do about it. I'm sad, hurt and want to get back what we had.
just bide your time and things will straighten themselves out
o.k. tell them that you feel left out and that their abandoning you. get together with your girl friend and make a night that you all can spend friend time together. or make up a night were they spend the night together and then the day after you spend lunch with him hanging out and that night you spend time with her having a girl's night.
Start making plans with other people. Find new friends.

My two friends got in a fight last year, and i sort of got into it and now all these kids dont want

last year 2 of my friends got into a fight and i sided with one friend and told the other one off. now i am paying for it because a ton of kids dont want to be my friend now (a lot of them were good friends!) When i attempted to talk to some of them they told me they dont like me because they dont like my other friend, i dont think this is fair. i miss all of my friends and i try and ignore them when they are mean to me but it isnt working, any suggestions?

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ok well heres what u have to do. try and work it out with ur friends. dont let the ur other friends stand in the way. if u feel its that important, prepare urself and go for it. if they wont talk to you or ignore u then maybe there not that good of a friend and u dont need them in ur life. i think that if its been going on for so long then maybe it wont mmagically get better. u need to give it more time.

My best friends adult daughter treats her like dirt, what to do?

My friends adult daughter treats her like CRAP. She dumps her kids on her all the time, doesn't pay her, complains about everything and is in ALL of her business, even finacial stuff (I guess all she cares about is her inheritance.) She's an only child, 37 years old, her mom is 57, so she's too old to change now. I've had many arguements with my friend about this, but to her, her precious, obnoxious, ugly daughter is the be all to end all and perfect in every way.

The girl is a demon-seed. The parents and the husband are scared to death of her nasty mouth, so they all just cow-tow to her. Do you think I can change this at all? We've been best friends for 15 years and all this has escalated since she retired in September, up until then I was able to ignore all the nonsense and drama because it wasn't on a daily basis.

I keep wondering if I should just cut all ties and walk away. My friends husband and I are good friends too, but if I have to lose him as a friend I guess I have to.

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Well, first of all I'm sorry that your friend's daughter is so ridiculously rude. That is terrible. Maybe you should try talking to her; I don't know why she would listen to you, but maybe since you were her mom's best friend she might realize what the heck she's doing. I know that sometimes I don't listen to my mom, because it seems like she needs to say certain things to me as my mother. But if another unrelated adult talked to her, she might get the picture. I don't think it's fair that you have to get so worried about this, and it's not fair that your best friend has to deal with it, and place some of the burden on you. If they all refuse to change, I think it's fair to threaten them by saying you will leave. It might be hard, but think how much happier it would make you! It's not selfish to cut yourself off from them; it sounds like you've done all you can and worried as much as you can. So if they aren't changing, it's their fault. Good luck.

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Your friend definitely needs you. You shouldn't stop being friends because of her daughter. Instead, tell your friend that you are concerned, and that maybe she should try to not give in so easily. I agree with part of what the last answerer said - you should try talking to the daughter. Try to be as polite as possible though.
its nun of ur bsuness

My two friends got in a fight last year, and i sort of got into it and now all these kids dont want

last year 2 of my friends got into a fight and i sided with one friend and told the other one off. now i am paying for it because a ton of kids dont want to be my friend now (a lot of them were good friends!) When i attempted to talk to some of them they told me they dont like me because they dont like my other friend, i dont think this is fair. i miss all of my friends and i try and ignore them when they are mean to me but it isnt working, any suggestions?

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ok well heres what u have to do. try and work it out with ur friends. dont let the ur other friends stand in the way. if u feel its that important, prepare urself and go for it. if they wont talk to you or ignore u then maybe there not that good of a friend and u dont need them in ur life. i think that if its been going on for so long then maybe it wont mmagically get better. u need to give it more time.

How many friends do you think the average person has?

I was just thinking about how few of my good friends I've stayed close with since high school, and it got me thinking, do you end up having less friends than you did as a kid as you grow up? And that made me wonder, how many friends the average person has. So, what's your guess? How many friends does the average person have? And if you'd rather, say how many good/close friends vs. how many acquaintances/social friends. This is just for fun, like a little poll. Thanks. Later.

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Let's say that friends are people who we see very often, like to spend time with you, have things in common, and most important of all, they like you for who you are.

A "few" would be too much. An average person say has normal social skills, so finding people of this characteristics is like finding a needle in a haystack.

The best years of my life were my high school years (not long ago!). I considered myself blessed with all the friends that I had. But time goes by and we went on different paths. So as you get older definitely, you loose friends (but make some new friends on the way!).

Thank God for those special people that you find in your way that changes your life forever. And those special "few" people become what we call "friends".

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A really true forever tell everything to and trust completely friend that loves you no matter what....0 as far as humans go.

3 if you look at it my way. Jesus and my husband and my dog.
Recent research has clearly shown that 6.5 friends is the maximum that any average person can handle.
Yes u do have less friends when u get older if u smart anyway.....u will. True friends are hard to find and are far and few in between and only time will tell.
i depends on how u are being friendly to anyone..but real true friend..its really hard to find..to have 2 real true friends for that is good..

Best friends!! I have a really good friend(14yrs), I consider her my best friend.?

We use to hang out all the time. I have grown and married and matured alot. I know everyone is different but this girl does not want to change. She still smokes weed daily, drinks daily and cheats on her live in boyfriend. Now both of them have been cheating on each other for the 13 yrs they have been together. I didn't agree with it then and still don't. He's also a very good friend of mine(childhood friends), like a brother. He got busted a few times, but she hasn't. Now she justifies her actions with saying what about when he did it to me? Her thing is when he got busted the last time, she was being faithful. WOW!!! I have tried talking to her about just leaving him/ him leaving her but they are still together and misable(both complain to me all the time). I stop hanging with her because she doesn't want to grow up. When we go out she argues with people even our other friends. I love this girl like a sister. What should I do? I don't want to be judgemental? Talks no help.

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There isn't anything you can do to change their relationship. Wash your hands of their mess. When she complains to you, sit her down, look her straight in the eye and say "I have tried talking to you about your relationship. You don't want to listen to anything I have to say. I love you like a sister, but stop bringing your problems to me." If she can't respect you for that, then maybe it is time for you to move on.

If your friend steals all your friends men including yours would u still b her friend?

my best friend and the rest of my friends noticed our friend tends to flirt wit our men and make them break up wit us would u still be her friend if she said she didn't mean it?

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shes flirting with your man get rid of her

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no i would beat her up BIG TIME
would you do it 2 ur friend ?
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No ,I wouldn't even consider her a friend anymore . Its just a front . !
no, i wouldnt but maby you should talk to her tell her you fell like she hates you and it makes you furious if she dont care find a new group and try to fit in
no i would teach her a lession, take her out help her find a man of her own and then jack him from her, when she knows how it feels, maybe she will stop
for me i wouldn't be be her friend. because if you find the right one she might steal him to.
She doesn't sound like a good friend, She probably trying to get attention. I wouldn't trust her around anyone I really love and want to settle down with one day.
i'd give her a b!+(h slap!
stop bein a ****** cry baby
She has some psychological problems evidently, with self-esteem. But these guys are not proper friends too, if they catch this lure. This girl has a right to meet somebody, and also in your environment, but such thing may happen once twice, not as serial thing. Of course, if you all are looking for more serious relations.
Sounds like your "friend" has no self-esteem!

She can't make friends,because she keeps breaking-up

people.I would try to get her some help,before I broke off

the friendship.It could be she has some deeper problems

and this is her way of "calling out "for help.
No, I'd cast her out. In college, my old roommate use to do that. She was one of my best friends too. Most of the guys that I'd dated prior to her I wasn't all that interested in, but I did start to notice she liked my used goods. As well as the used goods of our other female friends. The kicker was when she lied to my face about sleeping with one of my other best friend's boyfriends. None of us are friends with her anymore and we're all far better off. You say she claims she didn't mean it...well, I don't buy it. She knows what she's doing.

Advice on making friends鈥?

Since moving to the city, my childhood friends and I have become distant. I would like to make new friends in the area, but I guess I just assume once someone finds out how few friends I have at the moment they will want nothing to do with me. Also, it seems like people my age (in college) only want friends who already have lots of friends, so as to improve their own social status. I am not unattractive, I have good taste, I am kind and outgoing, but I have extreme difficulties just approaching a stranger and starting a conversation. Working alone hasn鈥檛 exactly helped either. I found a few girls my age on myspace that had similar interests as me and who live near by. Of the ones who agreed to add me as their friend, there has been no communication since they鈥檝e been added to my friend list. How do I start a friendship with these people, who as of now are complete strangers? Is there a way to get the conversation flowing? Any other advice on how to meet new people? I would love to take acting or dance classes, but do not have extra money for it right now.

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I have had the same problem. I moved out of my home state three and a half years ago and have only made a few friends here...they aren't even really good Friends, just the kid who only want things from me or ones that only talk to me at school. I just started college this past Jan. 2007. I have a few people I talk to at school but we don't talk outside of that. I am just not the type of person who can walk up to someone I don't know and start talking to them. Even if we do talk I am not going to sound like a loser and ask them to please be my fiend. I too have resorted to Myspace to find other people my age to be friends with that live in my area. I did meet one girl who is a fair-weather friend, but nobody else. So I don't really know what to say. You said you are outgoing so maybe you should get into some type of club at school or go to the local bar and hang out. Sorry I can't be of more help.

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Wait for an opportunity, once you get on a subject that you and someone else likes you two will go on and on.... Also, throw some compliments around, be like "hey cute shoes" and ask where they got them and stuff. People love talking about themselves, if they seem friendly ask them what interests them. And stop with the myspace try to be friends with people you will actually see every day. Good luck, girl. Confidence!
i hate to hear of someone new looking for friends, i have always taken notice of them and start a friendship cuz i'd hate to feel like that.....if i were u, i'd go to a church, a local library, just start talkin about anything that is interesting, like some girls do about clothes, hairstyles, salons... and if they are a really nice person then sure they'd like u, u sound really sweet......go to local parks and maybe if u like to take hikes, sure there's gotta be some there who would love to meet someone like u, also, the movies is good too, good luck!!!!!!!
Dude (I mean: dudette!), I have the same problem. I can go to school with someone for 2 or three years, and they are in my class for all of them, and they come up to me one day and start talking, I feel like a total stranger.I don't know how to respond to their statements, and I can't keep the conversation going. If you have any tips for me--PLEASE tell me.
Bummer, perhaps you should ask the people what you did to make them ignore you and tell them that you really wan't to have a very long lasting friendship. But if you don't want to be with them anymore then like you said meet new people. How? Well, when a new girl moves into the city and is new to your country, then show her around and tell/show her your favorite places to be when your alone. But, if your new to the nieghborhood then thats a different story. When you want to get use to being around there and wanna learn about the niehborhood, then ask someone whos already familiar with the nieghborhood and tell them thank you and ask them if they would go hang somewhere.
This makes me feel very sad. I presume you live alone in a city you don't really know and attend college? The best way is to get involved with groups at your college, ie. get on committees, etc. What about people who are in your classes? Find someone who has similar interest, etc, to you, and ask them to things with you. Be confident. When you get to know people through there, you can say casually "hey, let's grab a coffee, a movie..." etc. I know you don't have much money, but something like a drama class, a dance class, an art class or any sort of class would be a very good idea - after a few weeks of getting to know people, you can ask them out for a coffee at your place, and later dinner, etc. Join in with as many things as you can and the friends will come, it takes time, but hang in there! Good luck to you.

My friend with benefits just wants to be friends, should i take his offer?

we care a lot about each other but we've never officially dated because he's a lot older than me (im of legal age though) now he's really scared of my dad and says he just wants to be friends. we go through this all the time, where we'll be friends, then lovers, then friends again. i KNOW he cares about me, thats why it's so frusterating. his mom is unhappy about it and my parents dont know about it, but he did tell his mom that he loved me, but i guess he's going to take his mom's advice and stay just friends with me. i can't wait for him forever, but i cant move on when i still want to be with him! im pretty sure we'll end up being lovers again, should i just go with it, or should i just end the relationship?

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This is a tough decision - what is your heart telling you? If you love him, go with it and be friends. True friends are hard to come by and maybe, if you decide to go this route, there may come a time where you move on and then at least you still have your friendship in tact. If you decide to end it altogether, you may live with many regrets. I wish you the best of luck. My only other advice is this: remain true to yourself and let it be on your terms - not always on his.

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Go with it. If you end it, then you have nothing.

Take his offer, be just friends.

Better to have a friend, then no one.
no you should not take this offer hi wil use %26amp; live you
You need to end the relationship. I know it's hard but friends with benefits does not work if one of you has feelings involved, and you obviously do.

It's almost impossible to go from being lovers to being friends because the lust is still there so you may have to stop seeing him altogether for a while. You say yourself that you know you will drift back to lovers if you try to be friends.

I guess what you need to ask yourself is how long you're going to stick around waiting for him to make a commitment to you. You call him your FWB but you say "I can't move on when I still want to be with him!" That is not FWB, that is you having deeper feelings for him.

He can't have it both ways %26amp; neither can you. If you tell him you're okay with the FWB thing but you're actually wanting to be with him in a relationship then you aren't being completely honest with him either.

Tell him that you can't "just be friends" right now and tell him why. It's not his fault, neither is it yours ~ you can't help the way you feel %26amp; neither can he.

Good luck.
If you wanted to be more than just friends with benefits, why didn't it go further? Especially if you care about each other that much. Usually friends with benefits starts off as basically friends with no thought of anything more; then goes from there. I would suspect he wants to be in a serious relationship and since you are just the fwb girl, it won't work with his game plan. I think you can either get together with him and try and be something more than just fwb (if thats what you want) or let him get on with other relationships, which would mean he'd get the benefits part from others. You can still be his friend though.
Excuses, excuses, excuses he is making. And you're buying them like it's going out of style, lol. He does not want to be in a relationship with you and it is not because he is scared of your daddy (0o0oh, tough man) and its not because his mom does not like the idea---since when does he care about what his mom says ha, and also it is not because you are much younger than him (which has not stopped him from sleeping with you!), it's because he is not interested. He already got what he wanted and he is done with you. He doesn't even want more of that free thing you are giving him, how sad! That's a shame. I would bow my head down in shame and walk away. You ask should you just end the relationship?!? He already ended it by telling you that he just wants to be friends. That's a BIG hint. How many more ways does this man have to say STAY AWAY to you. In script? Using a braille? Sign languages? Take the hint and walk away, and next time do not have a friends with benefits, it's an ingredient for disaster. As your name suggests, to him it was just a "band, bang." Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Get it??? Walk away with the little pride you have left. Hopefully, lesson learned.
He just wants a "F***-Buddy" !!!!!

Am i taking my friends "wind"??

before i get to school my best friend, boyfriend, one on my other friends boyfriend, my boyfriend , and guy friend of all of ours, they all hang out talk a little (or so im told, im not there, how would i kno) but when i get there... it seem like my best friends boyfriend, and my other friends boyfriend, start picking on me, and i cant talk to my best friend or my boyfriend. they keep bothering me. my best friend and my other best friend think that their boyfriends have more fun with me. i dont want my best friends to get mad at me or my boyfriend to get mad at me. what should i do????

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Are your friends telling you this? Are they mad? Is it really a problem if they talk to you? Are you flirting with them? If it is a flirting thing and it's upsetting to your friends then hang out somewhere else in the morning with your boyfriend, tell him you want time alone, if it doesn't work then i dont know what else you can do, if they like you they'll be flirty with you, and so what, is it your fault if they think your cute?

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Stop trying to be the center of attention and they will not be mad at you.

Mutual friends getting in the way of this guy and I...what do I do?!?

So my guy friend and I have been flirting way more than usual. He's been texting several times every day, we have these long 4+ hour online chats, he stares at me a LOT, blushes, and flirts when the other guys (mutual friends, and his best friends) aren't around. Thing is, these mutual guy friends are almost ALWAYS around. And they give us kinda a hard time. I dunno if he likes me fo sure, but they may have a large idea I like him. They tease him about it by smiling when he talks to me, and nodding their heads and stuff. So he gets shy. When its just him and me, he's great %26amp; confident %26amp; loud. I dunno what to do. We can't start a relationship with such little talking/flirting in person, nor do I know if he likes me w/o observing him in person. But these mutual friends are always in the way. They'll always come sit in between us, and give us funny looks. What are ways I can flirt with him %26amp; stuff w/ them around? He gets shy around them, so I don't wanna freak him out %26amp; flirt too much.

Mutual friends getting in the way of this guy and I...what do I do?!?myspace cursors

talk to him about it..

and talk to your mutual friends about what they are doing 2!!

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maybe you'll grow up one day and learn how to have real relationships. right now it's not important.
first of all just tell him how you feel, try the next time ya'll are chatting or texting. better yet you should call him.

My friends are trying to make me stop being friends with someone what should i do?

she used to be my best friend but then she start beging mean to all my other friends but it is just her personaltialy and my other friends dont like her but i am starting to think they are right she is kinda mean i dont like it either but she still think im her friend what should i do plz help me plz

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For starters, I just want to say it isn't just "part of someone's personality" to be MEAN to others! If she is mean, that is a very negative trait and you should not be friends with someone like that! If she can be nicer, then maybe. I think your friends have a point. Why can't you see that?

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Grow up!!!
ignore them and be your own person they are not your friends if they try to dictate who you hang with
ignore her and do your spelling.
Talk to her but if she does it again

Then just say We Aren't Friends Anymore!!!

If she runds off crying give her one more chance! ( im a softy!-)
tell her your view about her to her and then just see how it goes from there
Just tell her straight out that her attitude is ruining the friendship and if she does not change, leave her.
, do what you know is right.be a leader not a follower
You have a mind of your own. Think for yourself.
ok dont worry. i know what ur goin thru!! i have a friend that done that 2 me 2! i just told her if she wasnt goin 2 b nice we couldnt b friends and she didnt change like u said it is their personalitys! but if she is rly ur friend she will come around she will b nice 2 them but know its just bc she still wants 2 b ur friend not theirs!
SHE THINKS THAT THE WORLD CENTER AROUND HER..

BUT LET HER KNOW THAT IT DON'T IF SHE CAN'T UNDERSTAND THIS ITS TIME TO REGROUP. THAT MEAN ON HER BEING YOUR FRIEND..... SHE CANT GO AROUND TRATING EVERY BODY LIKE DIRT. BECAUSE HER DAY IS COMING...
bin through da same situation let me give u some pointers:

first of all tell ur friend that everyone thinks she is mean and that u feel the same way but, u accept her 4 who she is nad then the ppl who are hatin on her tell them that uve accepted her for who she is and they dont have to be all buddy buddy with her but just dont be mean rite bac cuz wat goes around comes bac atcha 2 as hard
tell her the truth. her personality sucks and if she doesn't do something about it she is not going to be left with many friends
u should stop being bfs wit her if shes mean 2 your friends its kinda like being mean to u
If she were really your friend she would let you hang out with other ppl. I think that the only way you can let her know what you feel is by of course telling her. Maybe you could say, "Latley your attitude has changed and I don't like that very much. We're friends but if you can't accept my other friends too then maybe we shouldn't be friends." or if you still wanna be friends with her then maybe you should say, "Look we're friends and I wanna keep it that way but if its' going to stay this way then you need to know your attitude needs to change. And you should be able to accept myfriends and not be rude to them or me."

I hope I helped at least a little
break up with those friends that are saying that make them bleed and make them bow down to your feet you're hot

No friends!! Am I Loser?

Dear ppl,

I have no idea what to do. I HAVE NO FRIENDS! I wanna have a gym buddy,coffee buddy.. and the most important to have somebody by my side (someone I can talk to anytime,have a girls night out/in,share my sad and happy moments) I don't know how to make friends. I tried,but they all seemed to have their own friends or life. I live w/my BF,he's great. When he goes out, I mostly stay in because his friends and I share different intrests. Plus I wanna have my own "set" of friends. *I have BFF,she lives quite far from me,she's in university there. Its almost impossible to get hold of her,she's always busy w/school and stuff. I see her once or twice a month. I love 'er to death(so does she),but we're just too far apart from each other. Any ideas where and how to start?

Would be very greatful.

THANK YOU!

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I know exactly how you feel! My only and best friend is my fiance. Pretty much around the time I met him, I lost all of my friends, and never gained any new ones or got the old ones back. My old friends and I are just at different points in our lives ... (they are having children), while my fiance and I are trying to create a stable life for ourselves. My fiance lost his friends about a year and a half after i lost all mine, and since then we have been flying solo. He has one friend, that moved to Chicago, and will be coming back soon. They always let me hang out with them, and make me feel welcome, but I know how you feel. I would love to just have one girl-friend that understands what I am going through and that can relate on my more "girly" issues. It hasn't happened for me, and I really struggle in finding ways to meet new people. As I get more use to it being us two, it doesn't bother me that much. I would rather have one true friend then a bunch of backstabbing friends any day. I figure I just haven't met the girl that will be my friend, and my day will come. It's a struggle, but with a good man at your side you can pull through anything with a smile!

Sorry for the rambling, just wanted you to know that there are other women out there that are in the same boat! :)

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go to craigslist.org and make friends
well no not necessarily ur family is ur freidsn and yeah mayb ur a loser but get confidence and become a winner
I would like to have the same kind of friends like you to. But where i live you can't really trust anybody.. and people around here are so silly and aren't on my level of maturity
Get out, try something new, talk to people, start a conversation with some one who looks friendly.

GOOD LUCK
usually you make friends in the work place unless you're pulling graveyard shift. either start going out to clubs and stuff and just find people who share the same interests. there is no real way to say "you make a friend by..." sorry
gosh, try some volenteer work, get a job in retail.join a girls bowling league.get involved in some kind of comunity work.Take a craft class or art class.look to what your intrests are and seek that out.
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Do what I do and pay people to be you lackeys. Then you can boss them around and if they get out of hand you can fire them.
talk to people. Do yoga. It's very relaxing. Just do something you likethat involves other people. Your not a loser, just get a life outside of your boyfriend
when you are trying to make friends dont be too needy.

try to be nice but not too nice, and espe cially when you try to make friends make sure they dont use you.

that happened to me and after quite a while i made a bunch of great friends that i can tell my secrets to and such.

show people that you are an amazing person and try to be confident. if you ask me, it helps!!!

good luck, make a right choice of friends. pick the loyal and nice ones!
Go play an MMORPG. Massivley multiplayer online role playing game. Trust me. Buy world of warcraft, know how many people play it? Its just crazy. Make friends there. What is the difference between real life and friends in the game? You explore with them, quest and have fun. No downside, give it a go
NO, you're not a loser, what about women you work with, etc.

My friends has a love triangle problem?

my friend mani loves a girl name ritu( true love) for 3 yeasrs now and another girl manu is mani's friend . she is her true friend and helped her in times of good and bad....

well now she has started loving mani and she doesnt propose him but she loves him...

in the high school she on purpose touches mani in front of ritu and now ritu has dont the breakup...

mani's problem is that he wants ritu and he also cant stop manu to talk becoz they r good friends before and he also dont wanna breakup with manu and he want her to be just a friend with her but ritu also doesnt like it.....

ritu wants that mani should not talk with her...

plzzzzzz give me a solution that mani makes up with ritu and he also keeps a good friendship with manu and he doesnt lie to ritu about their relationship with manu....

ritu is also jealoused of manu ....

My friends has a love triangle problem?skinny myspace

how bout a name change for one, just kidding tell her to sit down both and discuss how she feels

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Well i have been in this situation before. You can say that i was in manu's place. As for my situation my best friend which happens to be in mani's place became my bf. Before he bacame my bf, he had a gf too. They were also together for 3 years but she was staying about 2 hours journey from where he is staying. Well actually he is staying quite near to her place but he is studying far away from her. They use to communicate through phone calls and sms. I use to get a bit jealous but i tried to control my feelings.

His gf had this problem, she seldom calls him and so does he but they loved each other very much. I was always there for me. I helped him in everything. He always tells me his problems. Well you can say that im always by his side when he needs or when he doesn't needs me.

He knew i loved him so much but he couldn't do anything cause he loves his gf so much and he knows that she loves him too. I always tell him that i love him so much and i cant live without him but he will always explain to me that he cant do anything and wants me to carry on with life, as in get a bf. But i cant cause i love him so much. I waited for him for complete 1 year. we had our semester break.

During the break i became very close to his best buddy %26amp; his buddy confessed to me. I didn't know what to say cause i still love my best friend so much. All my friends told me to move on. So i thought about it.

After 2 weeks, my best friend and i came back to campus. On the way back to campus, i was on the phone with his best friend. He knew that i was talking to his best friend cause i told him during the break that i might be giving his best friend a shot. He sounded kinda weird when i told him all that but i just didn't bother much.

Right after we reached campus, he asked me a question. He asked me whether am i serious with his friend. I straight looked him in the eye %26amp; told him that you are the one i love and i will always love you. I also told him that im gonna fulfill his wish. He always wanted me to have a bf so now im gona have one. He didn't say a word. He looked at me %26amp; his eyes was filled with tears. I kept on asking whats wrong but he refuse to say a word.

After a couple of hours he burst out in tears %26amp; told me that he loves me so much.I had no words. I asked him how about your gf. He said he already thought %26amp; he feels he need a person who is next to him %26amp; can take care of him, not a girl which he can just say that she is my gf. And as for his best friend i told him the whole truth %26amp; he took it very well.

Now im with my best friend but now he is not only my best friend but my bf too.

Mani has to know what he wants in life. Make sure its not to late. In life only very rare people get 2nd chances.

If my friends ask out a guy I like in front of his friends and he says....what does this mean?

Okay, like I notice that he keeps staring at me like in math class, and will try and keep his eyes looking at mine. Well, in the hallway I was walking and he yells nose job (its my new nickname at school) and I turn around and he comes up and walks beside me. And he says, I just wanted to see if it was you. And I'm like okay...And I tell him about my other nicknames, and after a while he goes off to talk to his friends. Well, at the homecoming game (football game) I had my friends go up to him and see if he would go out with me. (they asked my first and last name) and he said who? So they came to me, I said ask nose job. They go and ask him, and he goes sorry, no. (but I later found out that his friend was next to him) so did he say no cuz his friend was there or does he really not like, me or what? i'm so confused!!!! Please help, as I will see him tomorrow at school. (oh, and on time his friends said to me, why don't you go sit by him) Please help!!

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Either he's not interested in you, or he is, but he's not mature enough to put that interest ahead of his relationships with his friends, ie. he's choosing his friends over you. The only thing that argues against this is that he stares at you in math class.

And look if I were you I'd try to get a different nickname. "Nose Job" isn't too bad, except that it can be easilly converted to other less complimentary phrases that end in "job."

My boy friend & I had sex/not intercourse/with another couple/new friends, how can we go back to

My boyfriend and I had erotic involvement with another couple we met on line. They are very nice people and we became friends with them, not good friends, in fact all together we have only seen them in person about 5 times in 7 months, written several emails. Only had sexual experiance with them one time. I was ok with it, and even got way into it, at the time, and my boyfriend was very considerate and kind and was not at all with the woman, only briefly with the man, we spent most of the time with each other, and them with each other. I don't want to do that again. Once was enough and his fantasy was fulfilled. He still wants to be friends with this couple and I don't understand how we can, knowing that my boyfriend would do it again if I would and the couple would too, and it is me that is holding everyone back. He thinks we should write to them and ask if they are ok with just being friends. We fought. In the am he said he loved me and wants me to be happy. What is up?

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sorry, but i dont' think you can just be friends with the couple, it's best to end communication with them all together. and tell your partner that you don't want to include anymore people in your relationship, if that is what you want, however, if you do want that just not with this couple, you two need to set specific ground rules and guidelines to follow so you or him won't get hurt and you two won't "step outta line".

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YALL ARE SICK!!!! That's so NASTY
YOU MUST ALL BE ON THE SAME PAGE OR IT WILL NOT WORK. THESE MATTERS SHOULD HAVE BEEN DISCUSSED BEFOREHAND.
break up with him and become friends again ! if doesn't work move on!
Break up and walk away, you just open Pandora's box and it will never be closed.

Your man was briefly with the other man?! and it was his idea to meet with them?! You've been set up!

Walk away, walk away, and don't look back....its over.
that is really messed up and now your relationship is only gonna fall apart.
You tried it, and you don't like it. If he is not cool with that then you are going to have lots of problems. If he is fighting about it that means that he is going to end up doing it again without you.

Sorry but if he is that into it that he is gonna fight about it that doesn't give me much hope that he will just quit.

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So I have this guy friend, who I met about 2 months ago, and we've become really fast friends. We have the strangest conversations, but its like one of those things only we could ever follow. He's there for me when I'm mad, and hugs me often (or rather I hug him, but he hugs back). He's kind of a nerd (but then he's a cool nerd!!!), so he's not really straight up with he's feelings, so if he did like me, he wouldnt have said anything, probobly in fear of rejection.

He defends me when I get into arguements with my other guy friends, even if they're jokingly. But then Im not sure of these are signs he likes me as a person, or as a girl. He's nice to all of his female friends similarly , so Im not sure if Im over-reacting or not.

And I have no way of knowning from his friends, beacuse we all hang out in the same "clique", so if he did like me, he wouldnt tell anyone.

and I would normally tell him I like him, but Im dont wanna ruin our friendship... help?

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asking him about it won't ruin your friendship...

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It might.....................but if you love him then give it a shot
if you have a true friendship then telling him how you feel shouldnt ruin it.
Well then like flirt back in some kind of a way...give him a signal, without saying it. Sounds to me like he may like you, but dont push it too far as to ruin your friendship. Start with something subtle, and see if he gets it.
On the weekend go hangout with him ask him to do something and pay real close attention to how he looks at you and things like that.. im sure he does like you but just doesnt know how to tell you like you said about the rejection thing.. has he had a girlfriend before?
well i know wat ur talking about same thing with me u just have to follow ur heart with this type of stuff but yes he likes u think about it this stuff happens all the times a girl has a best guy friend in then in the end the find out that they love each other but theres a change u could mess up the relationship in yes it well change it well get stonger but have faith in it cuz when it happen to me i messed it up i felt like i hes was better my friend the my boyfriend u kno they way u can talk to him about ne thing it changed for me so be careful cuz now hes not my friend or ne thing i lost him i wish i could go back he was the bes t guy for me