Sunday, December 6, 2009

My friends dont like my guy friend cause hes fat?

i have this guy friend hes 18 ,hes 6 ft tall and weight 13 stone and is fat.hes realy nice and funny.2 of my girll mates dont like him cause hes fat and ugly.i have a bf but i like this guy asa friend.i dunno what to say to my other friends cause they wont hang out with me if im with him.im 18 and my friends are 17 and 18.



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Tell them to bugger off and stop being so shallow. You can't judge someone just coz they are overweight!



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well its up to you not your friends...if you like him i dont see what its got to do with them
kinda small minded huh!
tell your friends to grow up...
sounds like they don't understand the meaning of what a true friend is...
you should tell them to not be so shallow, lovely mates you have by the way.



if you judge people by looks alone you will end up very lonely and unhappy.
they sound like right bum holes your friends, how mean and rude and how pathetic are they? play at thier own game if they dont want to hang with you because your with him then thats thier choice is it not? and by the way i would not say he is 'fat' at all so please dont use that word again because your sounding like them
You are the one who needs to care. If you do, then care. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and inside. One day our looks will be gone, but that personality (whether good, hopefully.....or bad) will always be there.
Dont sound much like friends to me! How conceited are they???? Bet they are size 0 wannabes in all the latest fashions! Stuff em thats what I say, isn't there a saying that its whats on the inside that counts. Bet it does his self esteem loads of good with people like that around!!!
Since he is so nice, he doesn't deserve your friends - especially if they are mean. Who cares what he looks like, don't they know its whats inside that counts?
you should tell your friends they are very sad for thinking that way also remind them that one day they may also put on weight
Tell your to friend to grow up, and i am not over weight ,so i ho[pe you take my ad vice
just tell them how u feel...
if theyd stop talking to u over something so petty then screw them, what would they do if u suddenly gained weight? dump u? soooo not worth your time my dear!
Your friends are shallow and immature.



13 stone for a 6' guy doesnt sound that fat anyway.



You have to decide whether you want to be like your friends or be your own person, if they are really true friends they will accept that you want this guy as your friend and deal with their feelings towards him for the sake of your friendship.
well if they won't hang out with you, do you really want such superficial friends? they're really not friends if they do that, incidentally i'm married to a man who's 6 ft and 18 stone, i'm only 8.5 stone and 5'3", so we get funny looks, plus he's 22 years older than me, but i simply don't care what others may think, certainly don't run my life around others' opinions
Well too darn bad, we can't all be Robert Redford, evidently it doesn't matter to you and good for you. People that judge like that have small minds, you should not be with friends like that your above it, my suggestion is keep his friendship and dump the two twits...you must be a heck of a gal....proud of your thinking...
what a shame, tell him to stand up for himself



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don't listen to your friends. you can be friends wth whoever you want to be friends with. they shouldn't have any say in who you befriend. don't let the fact that they think he's fat and ugly destroy your friendship with this guy. they probably don't even know him, so they shouldn't be making those remarks.
What kind of friends do you have? They sound pretty shallow to me! And according to my calculations if he's 6 ft and 13 stone he cant be that fat!



Do you enjoy his company? I understand that you dont want to lose your friends so maybe you should go out with them separately? Chances are he's not stupid and probably feels uncomfortable around your other friends (poor guy!).



Do all your friends feel the same or do you have a ring leader who is perhaps egging them on? Speak to them individually and ask them what their problem is, approach them on a mature level and try to make them understand that we cant judge people on their looks alone, I'm sure not all of your friends are perfect, no one is.



If you feel so strongly about this maybe you should pick your friends more wisely, you seem like a nice person and good friends are hard to find.
well if everyone was made thee same the world would be dull. I myself have a heavy guy friend, ad I see nothing wrong with it. If your friends don't like him well in my eyes those girls are being self centered. They need not tell you that they don't like him, they need to keep their opinions to themselves. Not everyone is perfect in others eyes and so what. I hope that your guy friend can be a better person just by what others think of him. Walk with your head held high and don't let their harsh words hurt the friendship you and your guy friend have. There is already too much hurt in the world,and being judge mental is hurtful as well. Keep your friend and good luck with the self centered girl friends.
why are you freinds with these people, what does it matter what he loooks like, sounds like he is the freind you need
i can see u r a nice lil girl keep being good ok dont let ur selfish and immature friends let u make a mistake
don't sound like the sort of people i'd want to be around if you so called friends are to shallow to see a nice person just because he's overweight and or ugly there not nice people ditch them and get some proper mates
If your friends don't like him because of the way he looks then they are shallow. Would you prefer to be friends with someone who is quick to judge on looks alone or someone who is funny, kind and likeable? I know who I would choose. If you don't want to choose between them then just arrange to meet up with them at different times.
Do you really want to hang out with people who are so cruel, some day they're going to turn on you and you're going to need that other friend. So forget about them stupid nasty girls and stick with the good friend, trust me good friends are hard to come by.
To be quite frank with you, your friends are childish. At the end of the day who you decide to be friends with is your business not theirs. To treat this friend of yours the way they are doing is absolutely despicable in my book. They are judging him by his appearance rather than his personality. This can't be doing his self-esteem and self-confidence any good either. Unfortunately the world is full of prejudiced people who are quick to judge people before they have got to know them properly. Explain to your friends how you value this guy's friendship and that you don't need them to pick and choose your friends for you. Try and get them to spend time with you and your friend to get them to get to know him better. If that doesn't work and your 'friends' carry on with their immature behaviour then politely tell them that you don't want to see them anymore. This might in effect shock them into forgetting their pettiness. If they really respect you as a friend then they would get on with your friend despite the way he looks.
at 6ft tall, 13st isn't fat. He may need to tone up though. Tell your horrible bitchy mates to piss off because they aren't very nice people.
tell them he is just as good as they are, and if they still dont like it then stop hanging around with them, they are not very nice people, if you enjoy his company then that great.
By the sounds of it your friends don't sound like very nice people. Maybe they should try taking a really good look at themselves, not only on the outside but on the inside too. Just because someone is carrying a bit of weight does not mean they are horrible people and less desirable to others either in a relationship or a friendship. To be honest if i was you and you liked the guys company I'd stick with him, if your friends don't have the respect and maturity to see past anything but there own noses then leave them to it. I just hope life treats them well and they don't stumble across someone who does not have the desire to be with them because of there faults, because if we're honest we all do have faults.....what goes round comes around as they say.
Well does not matter if your guy friend is fat, u like them that all that matters,



your other friends need to grow up and stop being silly little school girls.



if your friends don't wont to hang around u then tell them to F*** Off there not your friends if they don't like your guy friends



because he is fat, what happens if your friends had other problem's what would they do.



i know why your friends don't like them because he is not good looking that's why hun.



you enjoy being with him because he is him self and he not trying to be someone that he not



You got a good friend there now stay friends with him because he be there for a long time

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