Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Help with friends!!?

I have lots of friends. But not as many as my popular friends have. But heres the bad part, i have kinda 2 groups of friends. 1. kinda popular, nice (to me), caring, and have alot in common with me.



2. normal, casual, friends. they dont have alot in common with me, but we are really great friends.



my question is, its hard being in 2 groups of friends. you know? like, "oh sit with me at lunch!!'' "oh i cant". so how do i handle this?! i really dont want to choose one group!



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Okay the way I see it you should merge these two groups together to form your own gand of super class friends!



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Then don't choose. You can still be friends with both. Maybe alternate who you sit with each day, or spend lunch with one group but recess with the other or some other simmilar arrangement.
some days sit with group 1 and then the other days sit with group 2... or try to get all of you to sit together.... or you should be close to the popular ones since you have more in common with them then the normal casual friends...but i would just try to get everyone to sit together and meet each other so you wouldn't have to go through all of this....
well you said you don't want to choose one group but in the end you'll have to if your worried about those types of questions thrown at you. you need to decide who you want to be with or else you have to somehow help GROUP 1 become friends with GROUP 2. and if you're still not sure what you want to do then weigh your options of which friends are better to you and also make a list of what you want in a friend. compare the two and if one sticks out above the other then you'll know your answer.



BEST OF LUCK!

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