Sunday, December 6, 2009

Are they true friends?

I've been close friends with two girls for three years now but all of a sudden, they seem different.



I thought they were both my best friends, or at least one, but it seems that they are the 'bestest of friends' and I cant argue with that because they know each other so well (they ate both jehovas witnesses).



Anyway, they are both good friends but one has started dating a lad. Before the relationship started, Caz* (my friend) let slip that she was going on a date to another girl. This girl, Terri*, has squeezed all of the info about and what happened on the date and i dont get told a thing. I know caz has told her because terri is playfully teasing caz.



Its really getting to me because terri only started hanging out with us a school two weeks ago and caz is telling her everything. When I ask, i dont get a straight answer.



These are the best friends i have ever had, or were, and its not like i dont like terri but i just feel left out.



How can i get my friends to trust me more...?



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I'm not sure it's a matter of your friends not trusting you. It seems to me that some girls go through kind of a rude and snotty phase during their school years. They for some reason think it's fun to exclude people from conversations or act like they have some kind of special secret between them just to seem cool, or becuase it gives them some kind of power trip to have information that others don't. There were lots of girls like this at my school.



The bad thing is, some girls act this way all through school and it's VERY ANNOYING. So, if you truly like these girls, and you consider yourselves real friends, you might just have to put up with the way they are acting and hopefully they'll grow out of it soon. And if you truly do feel that you are friends, you should try talking about it with them and tell them that it really does hurt your feelings that they won't include you more. I hope this helps - good luck and have a good day!



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yes there are true friends.



depends who you choose



cause some do get jelous
Don't be available to them for a while. If they miss you, they will come for you. If they don't, then they are no longer the people you thought they were. Who cares what they do on their own time? What you do on your own time should matter the most to you.
This seems to be the way it goes with a group of girls. Be patient... pretty soon you'll be in on a different secret and someone else will be feeling left out.
A friend is one who proves by deed when you need
People change and young people change more often. Remember all relationships are not equal, and if you feel comfortable around these 2 girls dont let it bother you. But if you feel uncomfortable, then I guess it would be best to move on and find new friends.
Just talk to them and see if that helps. tell them you feel like a third wheel. Its not fun. If they don't really care then move on. What friends are they if they don't include you in anything. Maybe you should invite them over to your house for like a sleepover or something. Something where you can hang out at. Maybe they just don't feel comfy around you. Or you don't have a lot in common. If nothing works, its time to find a new friend. One that will include you in things and not leave you out. Good luck with that :)
Sweetie, you are young and you should have a lot of friends.



Friends are for moral support, to have fun with, to share ideas with, and to help each other. Not everyone knows how to be a good friend. Friends do not make us feel excluded and left out. We feel good around real friends.



These two girls are bringing you down and sharing inside information with each other in front of you. That is rude, to say the least.



Go and make other friends and just get busy with your life!!!



Choose your friends wisely, though. Make sure they are nice and fun and moral people.



Good luck and may God bless you.
By the time ur 90yrs old, you will be able to count them on one hand, mates come and go,thay teach us lessons that only you will learn, trust and friendship are big words that generally over rated, their r 3 rules in a friendship,



1, trust



2, loyalty



3, faith



got those you have a true friend!!!!!!!



good luck
Well how you can get your friends to trust you more is that you should go out anf find you some more friends (I know that would be difficult) but its the only way that your friends will miss you. Because you are so busy on trying to find out about them and its probably getting on their nerves, also, you sre forgetting about yourself the most important person in that "group".



My greatest advice to you, is to find you some more friends that like you for you and that you can spend some time with and share secrets with. Like I said before they're some good friends out there.....
It really hurts when friends exclude you. It sounds like Caz is enjoying having a new ear to listen to her exploits. Perhaps Caz and Terri are afraid that you might not approve of their actions on their dates and fear you might judge them if they tell you what they are doing. You guys may have outgrown your friendship. Or it may just be that they are testing the waters and will bring you back into the fold eventually. While I am sure it hurts to be left out, don't overreact, give it some time and things may return to the point that they were. Meanwhile, cultivating new friendships can be fun and you may find that you have more in common with other people. Perhaps Caz and Terri may decide your friendship was more important to them than they realized once they see that you are spending time and having fun with other people. Don't ever underestimate your appeal to others. I am sure you have a lot to offer in the way of friendship and their loss is someone else's gain. If trust is an issue, then ask yourself if you have been a trust worthy friend. If the answer is yes, then stop beating yourself up for something you have no control over. If the answer is no, then make changes that will prevent your friends from thinking that you can't be trusted. It may not always be easy to be truthful, but it is always the right thing to do. Good Luck!
talk to your friends and let them know, how your feelin? let them understand. talk to them. talking always help

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