Tuesday, December 29, 2009

My old friends and I are falling apart?

I had a friend (let's call her Girl A) and there was another girl who I didn't know and she had a friend (let's call her Girl B). I met Girl B and we became friends. Then I introduced Girl A to Girl B. Girl B ditched her old friend and now we were all together. Now a year later it feels like they have completely changed. During the summer they were together but didn't invite me and now they don't even talk to me and ignore me and we don't even sit at lunch together. I feel like introducing them to one another has been the biggest mistake I've ever made! I have met new people this year but none of them really match my personality. I want to still be friends with Girl A but I doubt it will happen. Over the year they have gotten more popular than me. Do you think that affected our friendship? Are they embarrassed of me? How can we be friends again? I don't want to be alone this year and the next year. What happened? I don't feel comfortable talking to them about this. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?



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I feel ur pain.That same thing hapened to me.I had this friend and we were best friends for a year but then next year she started to change.She always got bored wen we talked and got an unusual habit of chaseing and following boys,wich i thought was ridiculous.Then she started hanging out with the popular kids a it seemed like she forgot about about me.At that time i thought that it was my fault she changed and i wished i could be friends with her agan but it didnt hapen.She didnt even invite me to her birthday!Now im glad im not her friend.I thouoght she was my friend,but she turned out too be a super SNOB!Now evryone in the whole school hates her exept for her mindless drone.



So heres my advice:



I your not friends with them anymore,its their loss.You cant expect to make friends with someone and be there friends for life.Heres the deal: People change.Friends change.I no u want her back the way she was before,but somtimes u just hafta deel with it.Ull make new friends.Trust me.I no i did!



Besides,mabye ur friend will turn into a super snob just like mine!LOL!



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If they just ditched you, they weren't your friend to begin with.



I keep telling my daughter to stay to herself. If she wants friends have one main one and the others as associates because too many friends is too many personalities. And things like what just happened to you will happen.



There are so many people in the world and in school. Just do what they are doing. Find a new friend, don't even worry about them because chances are if you trust their friendship agian they may do the same thing to you again.
keep trying, give them calls tell them you want to hang out and stuff.



Keep trying and if nothing changes after awhile give it up let go and move on ppl change and grow apart its apart of life.



"Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. What is meant to be will end good and what is not wont. Relationships are worth fighting for but sometimes you can鈥檛 be the only one fighting. At times people need to fight for you. If they don't you just gotta move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Hopefully people realize great things when they come around and don't lose something real. Always fight until you can't anymore and then be fought for."



-Erin Drury
I hate to say this but ppl osmetimes grow apart. keep trying to make new friends.
I know exactly how you feel. i have two best friends and i would call one of them and then i would suggest to call the other one on three way. then i would end up the quiet one and they seemed to talk the whole time to each other not me. is what i did was i invited both of them over one at a time . and they came and we had a great time. then they saw that i was still there friend. and now everything is fine. i hope i was some help to you. =)

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