My friend with benefits just wants to be friends, should i take his offer?

we care a lot about each other but we've never officially dated because he's a lot older than me (im of legal age though) now he's really scared of my dad and says he just wants to be friends. we go through this all the time, where we'll be friends, then lovers, then friends again. i KNOW he cares about me, thats why it's so frusterating. his mom is unhappy about it and my parents dont know about it, but he did tell his mom that he loved me, but i guess he's going to take his mom's advice and stay just friends with me. i can't wait for him forever, but i cant move on when i still want to be with him! im pretty sure we'll end up being lovers again, should i just go with it, or should i just end the relationship?

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This is a tough decision - what is your heart telling you? If you love him, go with it and be friends. True friends are hard to come by and maybe, if you decide to go this route, there may come a time where you move on and then at least you still have your friendship in tact. If you decide to end it altogether, you may live with many regrets. I wish you the best of luck. My only other advice is this: remain true to yourself and let it be on your terms - not always on his.

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Go with it. If you end it, then you have nothing.

Take his offer, be just friends.

Better to have a friend, then no one.
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You need to end the relationship. I know it's hard but friends with benefits does not work if one of you has feelings involved, and you obviously do.

It's almost impossible to go from being lovers to being friends because the lust is still there so you may have to stop seeing him altogether for a while. You say yourself that you know you will drift back to lovers if you try to be friends.

I guess what you need to ask yourself is how long you're going to stick around waiting for him to make a commitment to you. You call him your FWB but you say "I can't move on when I still want to be with him!" That is not FWB, that is you having deeper feelings for him.

He can't have it both ways %26amp; neither can you. If you tell him you're okay with the FWB thing but you're actually wanting to be with him in a relationship then you aren't being completely honest with him either.

Tell him that you can't "just be friends" right now and tell him why. It's not his fault, neither is it yours ~ you can't help the way you feel %26amp; neither can he.

Good luck.
If you wanted to be more than just friends with benefits, why didn't it go further? Especially if you care about each other that much. Usually friends with benefits starts off as basically friends with no thought of anything more; then goes from there. I would suspect he wants to be in a serious relationship and since you are just the fwb girl, it won't work with his game plan. I think you can either get together with him and try and be something more than just fwb (if thats what you want) or let him get on with other relationships, which would mean he'd get the benefits part from others. You can still be his friend though.
Excuses, excuses, excuses he is making. And you're buying them like it's going out of style, lol. He does not want to be in a relationship with you and it is not because he is scared of your daddy (0o0oh, tough man) and its not because his mom does not like the idea---since when does he care about what his mom says ha, and also it is not because you are much younger than him (which has not stopped him from sleeping with you!), it's because he is not interested. He already got what he wanted and he is done with you. He doesn't even want more of that free thing you are giving him, how sad! That's a shame. I would bow my head down in shame and walk away. You ask should you just end the relationship?!? He already ended it by telling you that he just wants to be friends. That's a BIG hint. How many more ways does this man have to say STAY AWAY to you. In script? Using a braille? Sign languages? Take the hint and walk away, and next time do not have a friends with benefits, it's an ingredient for disaster. As your name suggests, to him it was just a "band, bang." Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Get it??? Walk away with the little pride you have left. Hopefully, lesson learned.
He just wants a "F***-Buddy" !!!!!