Sunday, November 29, 2009

Friend Asking to be friends Again. Should I?

Okay so there's these girls Mary and beth that were my freinds but soon becme verymean but than nice and than mean and than nice, etc. Than finally they just gave me the silent treatment for 2 weeks and I found a new group of friends. but yesterday Mary called. she said sorry and stuff andd said that they were just seeing how long they could go without talking to me.I was still mad cause you just don't do that to someone but today she went into more detail saying that beth didn't like me anymore but I didn't care. She's treating me normal all of sudden but I don't want to be friends with her anymore. How can i get her to realise that our friendship is over and getting myself to realise that too. So many time I've told mary that I wasn't her friend but than ened up being her friend again, i don't want that to happen again. help me!



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Real friends are nice to you all the time and like you for who you are. They dont give you the silent treatment for no reason. The next time mary comes to talk to you, give her the silent treatmeant. Its a taste of her own mean medicine. Stick with the group of friends you had before.



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If they did it once, they'll do it again.
You answered your question already, ignore Mary from now on and just stick with your group. Mary and Beth ignored you for an immature reason and thats enough proof that they are not your real friends.



They're also two-faced, you said they were nice, then mean, then nice and then mean again. Obviously, they are being fake to you.



With Mary, you don't need to reason with her anymore. Tell her "I don't think we can be friends anymore" and leave it like that.
well....dis is a similar problem i had wit sum of my friends bck in 5th n 6th grade.....wat i did was told them wat they did n how they had hurt my feelings...doin dis was probably sum kind of joke 2 them but in the end they still want 2 be ur friend. i told them dat i couldnt trust them n dat they were playin wit me as a toy...they said srry n everythin but i stood my ground so now they barely talk 2 me anymore but we merely just sumtimes say hi or have a little conversation bout stuff but dats bout it....they hangout wit their friends n me wit mines....it all turned out good..
You do not have to be mad at them - or even be mean or rude to them. In fact, carry on as normal, be nice, but continue to hang out with your new friends.



Maybe your friendship has run its course? If you keep it nice, there will never be anything bad that they can say about you and you can drift away from them quietly with no fuss.



I had a few girlfriends in high school who acted the same way, and it's normal b1tchy girl stuff to do. I was reluctant to let the friendship go, but in the end I found some sincere friends and those mean girls were still b1tches after school and still are feral.

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