My two friends are in a ridiculous fight...?

Well, here's what happened: My friend, Emmy, send an e-mail to me and another friend politely asking that we stop sending her forwards, b/c she got the exact same ones from the two of us. Anyways, we both forgot about it, and kept doing it for another two months. She got mad and sent a more erm... loud e-mail demanding we stop. I didn't have the time to reply to it, but my other friend did. She sent back a harsh e-mail telling her that she was being rude. Emmy got mad and sent another e-mail, suggesting they end the friendship and saying that she (my friend) was always doing stuff like this (which is partially true). Then, my friend took it way to seriously, and sent back a rant, and now they're not friends. Emmy apologized to me after all this, saying she hadn't meant to be so rude, but not my other friend.

Now, I think they're both being completely immature about this (their exact words were: "she started it" and "it's not my fault" and "I'm not apologizing until she does").

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I am sorry that you're caught in the middle of this! I think Emmy acted before being able to calm herself because she felt disrespected that her friend/s weren't abiding by her wishes, and she lashed out. Not getting the respect from your friends at your age is hard because no one around you seems to understand - your friends are supposed to, that is why she took something so small, and became overly sensitive to it. Please just remind them that this is so tiny, that to let something like this ruin a friendship is something they will regret. So many bigger things will be happening in life, and you will all need eachother. Pride is strong, neither can back down. I hope they can forgive eachother and move past this.

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To me that fight is immature....tell your friends that it is done and over with and you want to stop fighting and move on with life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think that you all should say sorry to each other and if that doesnt work just forget about it - are u really gonna let some stupid email argument destroy your friendship with each other. Just move on and get over it
You're exactly right hun, they are both being way too childish! Plead with both of them that for your sake you want you all to be friends again because you hate being caught in the middle and love them both and therefore can't take sides! Maybe that will influence one of them to be the bigger person (show they are more mature and more like an adult in their thinking) and apologize first. Sorry you're caught in the middle! Hope this helps! =)
try to get them togther and settle it calmly
just let them fight ...and tell them that you would like to stay out of it. And do that stay out of it.
Wow your life is really dramaified.... Your friends are being really childish. Argh people need to grow up sometimes! %26gt;:[

Get between them. They're probably gonna get really mad and defensive at you but you just have to stick it out. Talk to them reasonably and don't get angry back. Ask them both their feelings one at a time and don't let the other one interrupt. Even if you feel sympathetic to one side don't let it show because the other one will just refuse to see sense if you both look like you're ganging up on her. If they can see both sides of it and how ridiculous they sound when they say their feelings they might back off and be friends again.

Sometimes this doesn't work though. The only thing you can do at this point is just stay outta it. Which might be really hard. It usually was for me.
It's really for them to work out.

Get yourself out of the middle of it.

You could try getting them together and giving them a little speech about how much you value both of them, and that it really doesn't matter who was at fault, that they both flew off the handle, but that isn't what's important.

But if they insist on staying mad, there's nothing really for you to do but wait them out.

On the one hand, you both should have removed her from your forward lists when she asked.

On the other, she could always just delete them and move on.

On yet another hand, they were both harsh and ranty with each other, and so are both in the wrong.

But if they won't call it a rudeness draw, there's nothing you can do.
thats happened with me before. just dont email her